(Closed) Would it be rude if…

posted 7 years ago in Reception
  • poll: Would it be rude to put an old fashioned fake wedding photo of FH and I with all our familys pics?
    yes : (6 votes)
    12 %
    no : (44 votes)
    88 %
  • Post # 3
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I think that would be cute. I know people are difficult but I don’t know if I can see anyone getting upset at that.

    Post # 4
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    OMG I think that is hilarious!!!

    I wouldn’t be offended… but mayeb it depends on your families’ senses of humor.

    Post # 5
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    Helper bee

    I think it’d be really cute! I think it might come off as mocking if you chose a really rediculous out of date outfits or something over the top, but adding your photo to the group of other happy marriages will be a sweet nod to the people that inspire you.

    Post # 6
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2010

    i think that is really cool.

    Post # 8
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I’m with your FI on this one!

    While I think it would be funny and cute, I can also see parents, aunts/uncles, grandparents, etc being kind of offended and upset.  Displaying their wedding photos like that is kind of recognition of the work / struggles / perserverence / success of their marriages and to associate that with a joke could very much rub them the wrong way.

    Post # 9
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2010 - Tannery Pond at the Darrow School

    I don’t think it’s rude at all, I think it’s a cool/funny idea!

    Post # 10
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2010 - Tannery Pond at the Darrow School

    I don’t think it’s rude at all, I think it’s a cool/funny idea!

    Post # 11
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    Busy bee

    I think that that is a very cute idea!

    Post # 12
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    um, thats not rude, thats awesome!!

    i have a picture of the girls in my 7th grade german class dressed like this; we went to lancaster for a school trip. it is seriously the funniest, cutest picture ever!

    Post # 13
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I can’t imagine why someone would get bent outta shape about that.  Its cute!  I’d do it for sure.

    Post # 14
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I don’t think it’s rude at all.  NMS, but not bad etiquette either.

    Post # 15
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2009

    What a fun idea! I can’t imagine anyone getting offended.

    Post # 16
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2017

    i think it would be offensive if it was someone elses wedding but not at yours! At your wedding i think it is cute to incluse yourself with all the married couples!

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