- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
My sister is my maid of honor and that was always the most obvious choice for me. However, the more I think about it the more I ALSO want to give the “honor” to my other bestie. This came about when I started thinking about what order to put my BM’s in for the ceremony. No matter what way I arranged it, I realized I wanted my bestie to be right there next to my sister as equals, because she is truly like a sister to me. I am SOO much closer to her than any of my other bridesmaids.
I am pretty sure my sister wouldn’t mind “sharing” the role…I’m just wondering if it’s weird to ask my friend this late in the game? It’s been 7 months since asking all of my BM’s to begin with. I also don’t want it to seem like she was an afterthought or for any other BM’s to feel jaded or anything. I think it’s so easy to not play favorites with your friends when you have a sister — it’s sort of like she’s a shoe-in for that “top” spot so no one’s feelings get hurt!