Post # 1
So here’s the deal. I have this image in my mind of how the groomsmen will look at the wedding:
Now FI is saying he wants to wear a tux. But he doesn’t care if the GM wear tuxes. Would it look silly to have them mis-match? It’s a July wedding, so I wanted the guys to be able to take off their jackets and still look fancy.
Or, should I have them all wear tuxes to match my FI?
Post # 3
how formal is the wedding/your dress?
Post # 4
If it makes you feel any better my guys are going to be all mismatched. 2 of them are in the military and wearing their dress uniforms, the rest (including the groom) are wearing whatever charcoal gray suit they want to.
Post # 5
@kitzy: Well, the wedding is going to be semi-formal, which is why I wanted the suits. But my FI wants to feel special and wear a tux. It’s (so far) the only thing he’s really put his foot down about.
@MissMeg: okay phew! I just can’t find any pictures of mis matched suits online that make me feel any better about it.
Post # 6
@kitzy: oh, and my dress is semi formal – it’s that vintage lace gown that I’m re-working.