Post # 1
Mostly just putting this up for fun. But yah, my FI, ALWAYS asks me if I want to do it.(even if i’m clearly doing things to indicate that i’m in the mood, lol!)
Not a big deal in the scheme of things, but sometimes it dulls my mood. Wish he’d just a make a move, if i’m really as irresistible as he says i am. haha. I’ve talked to him about it, but he never changes. lol…
Post # 3
Your post made me laugh. My husband does the exact same thing- sometimes he says, “want to have sexydoos?”
I agree, it’s a mood killer.
Post # 4
Haha, if it was the ONLY way he initiated then I’d be like “okay buddy, let’s work on your phrasing.” But occasionally I kind of like it. 😉 Direct and to the point. haha.
Post # 5
I totally feel you on this one. FI looks at me and says “boobies” and thinks it’s foreplay sometimes. Drives me up a wall. Also. Anytime he sees even just a little bit of flesh he wants to have the sexy time. Most times I’m just changing and have a million things to do, so he gets a lot of “laters”, and I change in the bathroom!
Post # 6
Yep, mine’s always the good ol “wanna do it?” while thrusting his hips.
Well, now I don’t.
Post # 7
@maureen9004: sexydoos?? haha k that makes me laugh!
sometimes I do like it. reminds me of lilly and marshal from the tv show how i met your mother (worth watching!). and that makes me smile because i think they are the cutest couple ever!
Post # 8
Yeah, I don’t really have that problem (not often anyway). Because FI and I barely see each other, when we are together and ‘in the mood’ it is something unspoken yet understood between the both of us…If that makes any sense, lol. 🙂
Post # 9
I’m the total opposite – I’m the one always asking DH if I’m going to get lucky tonight – and he tells me it’s a total turn off. I just wanna know!! 🙂
Post # 10
@gocubbies:LMAO! Mine says “so you gonna’ do me?” while doing the hip thrust-licking of the lips. Nice, so nice.
Post # 11
Haha, you guys are killing me! LMAO! Your guys are so funny. I usual just get boob ‘honking’ to indicate that he’s in the mood.
Post # 12
I just got a text from my FI asking me if he could have some spicy taco tonight. ARE YOU KIDDING ME??? as if thats going to put me in the mood.
Post # 13
This post made me laugh. My husband totally knows when I am in the mood yet he always gets a big grin and says “you wanna do it?” This makes me laugh, first of all because he says “it” instead of sex like he is in grade 8 and secondly because, OBVIOUSLY I am in the mood lol.
Gotta love them 🙂
Post # 14
UGH an ex of mine did this and it killed the mood every. single. time.
Post # 15
Honestly, for me that’s about the only way things are initiated right now because of medicine and medical problems messing with my sex drive.
Post # 16
Nope, wouldn’t mind it at all. That is how I initiate sometimes, sometimes you just want to get to the deed.