(Closed) Would this bug you?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Would it BUG you if your SO only initiated by saying "do you want to have sex?"
    Yes! if he's in the mood, then he should make a move! : (32 votes)
    22 %
    Yes, if it was the ONLY way he initiated : (76 votes)
    52 %
    Sorta mind... : (10 votes)
    7 %
    No, it must just be how he goes about it : (19 votes)
    13 %
    No, it is clearly a sign of his respectfulness : (5 votes)
    3 %
    Other - cause I probably didn't probably capture everyone's opinions ;) : (4 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
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    2373 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2008

    Your post made me laugh. My husband does the exact same thing- sometimes he says, “want to have sexydoos?”

    I agree, it’s a mood killer.

    Post # 4
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    6893 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    Haha, if it was the ONLY way he initiated then I’d be like “okay buddy, let’s work on your phrasing.” But occasionally I kind of like it. ๐Ÿ˜‰ Direct and to the point. haha.

    Post # 5
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    426 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    I totally feel you on this one. FI looks at me and says “boobies” and thinks it’s foreplay sometimes. Drives me up a wall. Also. Anytime he sees even just a little bit of flesh he wants to have the sexy time. Most times I’m just changing and have a million things to do, so he gets a lot of “laters”, and I change in the bathroom!

    Post # 6
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    1313 posts
    Bumble bee

    Yep, mine’s always the good ol “wanna do it?” while thrusting his hips.

    Well, now I don’t.

    Post # 8
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    841 posts
    Busy bee

    Yeah, I don’t really have that problem (not often anyway). Because FI and I barely see each other, when we are together and ‘in the mood’ it is something unspoken yet understood between the both of us…If that makes any sense, lol. ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 9
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    7175 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    I’m the total opposite – I’m the one always asking DH if I’m going to get lucky tonight – and he tells me it’s a total turn off.  I just wanna know!! ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 10
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    5106 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    @gocubbies:LMAO! Mine says “so you gonna’ do me?” while doing the hip thrust-licking of the lips. Nice, so nice.

    Post # 11
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    171 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Haha, you guys are killing me! LMAO! Your guys are so funny. I usual just get boob ‘honking’ to indicate that he’s in the mood.

    Post # 12
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    1253 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I just got a text from my FI asking me if he could have some spicy taco tonight. ARE YOU KIDDING ME??? as if thats going to put me in the mood.

    Post # 13
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    711 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    This post made me laugh. My husband totally knows when I am in the mood yet he always gets a big grin and says “you wanna do it?” This makes me laugh, first of all because he says “it” instead of sex like he is in grade 8 and secondly because, OBVIOUSLY I am in the mood lol.

    Gotta love them ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 14
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    3220 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    UGH an ex of mine did this and it killed the mood every. single. time. 

    Post # 15
    Hostess
    18646 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    Honestly, for me that’s about the only way things are initiated right now because of medicine and medical problems messing with my sex drive.

    Post # 16
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    14503 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Nope, wouldn’t mind it at all.  That is how I initiate sometimes, sometimes you just want to get to the deed.

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