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    Swoontobee Mrs.G    November 5, 2011   OC, CA

    So.... I LOVE the witty, unique ways that many of you have found to word your RSVP cards. The one place where I want to be very clear though is my RSVP cards. I'm scared to confuse my guests and possibly end up with a very incorrect guest count because people mis-read it or didn't know what I meant.

    Would the following RSVP confuse you? If so, any recommendations? I tried not to add extra boxes. Or should I just make it strictly traditional/simple (how I originally had it)?

    THANKS!!

    PS- The spacing/font/format always becomes wonky on here, hopefully this won't happen! If so, just pay attention to the wording please!

                                                                 We do! Do you?

        Kindly respond before October 5th, 2011

                                   We have reserved _____ seat(s) in your honor. 

     

    ❏  Enthusiastically accept (or Regretfully accept )

                   _____ out of _____ will attend.  

                   Name(s) of those attending: ___________________________________                            _____________________________________________________________ 

     

    ❏  Regretfully decline (or Enthusiastically decline )

     
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    Swoontobee Mrs.G    November 5, 2011   OC, CA

    Yup! The format and spacing became all messed up. Please try to ignore that! Thanks!

     
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    Captain013    March 2012  

    I would leave off the "(or Regretfully accept ) and (or Enthusiastically decline )"  try something else if you are going for humor.

     
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    misschickpea    October 26, 2013   Austin, TX

    @Captain013: I agree, its a neat idea but its hard to understand humor in words sometimes, I kinda just got confused for a few moments.

     
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    Swoontobee Mrs.G    November 5, 2011   OC, CA

    Yeah, I think you girls are right. Thanks!

     
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    ontariobride    September 23, 2011   Ontario

    for mine I did

    we have reserved ___(inserted number)___ seats for you

    Names  :_______________________________

    ___ ready to wine dine and dance

    ___ sorry to miss the fun

    I like your words but I think people will get confused. I wanted something different than will attend, unable to attend so I used creative wording.

     
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    Swoontobee Mrs.G    November 5, 2011   OC, CA

    @ontariobride: I like that! And it's not confusing at all! Anyone else use non-standard RSVP wording?

     
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    Captain013    March 2012  

    These might be more of what you are going for.

    Would this RSVP card confuse you? :  wedding rsvp wording invitations Ritzybe

    Would this RSVP card confuse you? :  wedding rsvp wording invitations Rsvp Pic

    Would this RSVP card confuse you? :  wedding rsvp wording invitations DSC02179 300x225

     

     
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    MsFoxxy    October 6, 2012   DW in St. Thomas USVI/ AHR in Atlanta, GA

    @Captain013: LOL @ the 'bells' RSVP.  Love it!

     
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    Captain013    March 2012  

    @MsFoxxy: Totally love that one. I may have to shamelessly steal that idea, I dont care if its been used before. lol

     
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    joy2011    October 22, 2011   NE Ohio

    It's not confusing to me, but trust me, you WILL have guests who can't figure out how to fill it out! (grr...) :-/

     
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    chellology    October 21, 2011  

    @Captain013: haha that is hilarious I have never seen that before!!!!

     

    I sent what I thought were very straight forward and standard RSVPs (with no flavor text).  I still recieved several with question marks and several with nothing written in the Number Attending blank. 

    Not sure why it is so confusing.  You will have to call some people to verify no matter what.  At least I am going to have to.

     
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    Storm0075    September 10, 2011   MD

    We used the bells language as well and had some people ask what the deal with the bells was. You either have a sense of humor or you don't. :)

     
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    MuchGreater    November 6, 2011  

    @Swoontobee Mrs.G: this is very nice... yay. I am so excited I have been looking for wording for my cards... that we choose how many people will attend and they dont get to write it in... how did these rsvps go?

     
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    HeatherShane    October 29, 2011  

    I dont think it is confusing but could be helpful to change to somehting llike this:

    Kindly respond by October 5th, 2011

    We have reserved 2 seats in your honor

    M____________________________________

    M____________________________________

    ___ We accept with pleasure

    ___ We decline with regret

     

    So the lines where they would write their names would cordinate with the number of seats that will be reserved. Also remember to number your RSVP cards on the back or something, i have had a handful come back with no names and i didnt number mine :( opps

     
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    mckernae    August 1, 2012  

    @Captain013: OMG, I love the bells RSVP card. Too bad I'm already married! :).

    @Swoontobee Mrs.G: I would do away with the (Regretfully accept) & (Enthusiastically decline) language as well. I think it's a little confusing & weird.

     
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    Saramina329    June 23, 2012   Baltimore, MD

    I love the ideas.

     
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    Monkey786    June 24, 2012  

    here is my rsvp card! i think this was a draft of it--- as there is a run-on sentence (grammar mistakes drive me crazy on important things) but i love the idea of mine! i'm sure people will get confused but whatever :) i like it! my grandma saw it and was like "i don't understand" but she is in her late 80's...

    Would this RSVP card confuse you? :  wedding rsvp wording invitations Eee

     
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    78science    June 9, 2012   Minnesota

    @Monkey786:  Oh my gosh I love this!!! I hope you don't mind if I steal it! The invitations are being sent for the final proof to be printed today.....FMIL works in graphic design and is making them for us so it is a lot easier to get a last minute change!! I loved everything about our invitations except the boring standard RSVP - thank you for sharing this!!

     
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    akp0702    June 8, 2012   Raleigh, NC

    @Captain013:  OMG I love the 'bells' one...I wish I'd seen that before I placed my order!

    I do love nontraditional/humorous wording on RSVPs.  We tried to keep ours a little unique but my mom really wanted it to be a little more formal.  We compromised and used "we wouldn't miss it for the world!" and "we'll celebrate from afar!"

     
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    Monkey786    June 24, 2012  

    @78science:  go for it! i took the idea from pinterest. i'm gonna PM you a few i found from pinterest to help you out

     

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