(Closed) Would this upset you…..

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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12565 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’d be upset if most of my family didn’t make it, but at the same time, I’d be excited for those who did come.  Just try to show your FI that he’s joining your family now, and all of these people are thrilled to welcome him!

Post # 4
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3485 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

No, we picked the date and we sent out the invites, those that can make it will; there’s really not much control left at this point, so it’s not worth stressing about it after the fact. 

Post # 5
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1401 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Personally for me no. I’m not that chlose to my family and I’m not expecting many of them to come. And it just so happens that his family hates me (for no reason … seriously) so they won’t be coming either. It hurts both of us. But we’re focusing on the fact that we are building a family together and we’re going to celebrate with our friends that want to share in on our special day.

Post # 6
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807 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I would only be upset if members of my immediate family were not coming. The others are absolutely right, he’s being welcomed into your family and you should say that. 

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