(Closed) Would you…….

posted 7 years ago in Decor
  • poll: Would you change wedding colors, if your fiance and his ex wife used the colors when they wed?
    Yes, definitely : (51 votes)
    57 %
    No, I would just do it better : (27 votes)
    30 %
    Maybe : (11 votes)
    12 %
  • Post # 3
    654 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    No, I’d just do it better!

    Post # 5
    4485 posts
    Honey bee

    No because they don’t own those colors.

    Post # 7
    566 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    baaah! It wouldn’t bother me too much. As long as I didn’t find a bunch of other things in common with that “other” wedding I’d be fine.

    Post # 8
    395 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    nah. theres only so many colors in the spectrum – someones gotta use them at some point 😛

    Post # 9
    1641 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I probably would change, because I wouldn’t want to take the chance that anything I did would remind him of her on my wedding day! I was careful when i chose my dress that it was different from hers.

    Post # 11
    606 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    Nope!! I would just keep going unless HE asked me to change them.

    Post # 12
    9029 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I would change. there are many other colors out there.. why have his 2nd wedding be a reminder of his first

    Post # 14
    948 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I would change the colors.  It would definitely bother me and I’d keep thinking if his side of the family also remembered that the colors were the same as his previous wedding.  

    Post # 15
    3709 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I would try to get a look at their wedding photos and make sure that our wedding was totally different…even if the colors were the same. Lucky for me Fiance got married at the Justice of the Peace and there never was a wedding or reception. Plus he was divorced over 15 years ago so none of that stuff would be stylish now anyway…LOL. 

    Post # 16
    2538 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2009

    I voted maybe, but I’m changing my opinion as I write this.  I LOVED my colors, bright blue with orange and yellow and it would not have felt the same without using them.  Luckily, they are somewhat unique (and not as popular at the end of the 90s).

    But I also told my Darling Husband I didn’t want to hear anything about his first wedding so I wouldn’t be comparing it.  

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