Would you??

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: If your SO asked you to do something illegal, no matter how small would you:
    Say Yes! - Where they go, I go. I'm there to support them. : (40 votes)
    42 %
    Say No! - My personal safety is more important than breaking the law. : (55 votes)
    58 %
  • Post # 3
    9137 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

    @RheaIzar:  It depends on a lot of factors.  All I can say for sure is that I wouldn’t immediately say no.

    Post # 4
    2113 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    It would depend on what exactly he’d be doing, honestly.

    Post # 5
    3248 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I guess it really depends on what it is (I.e. Driving without a license okay, stealing something no). I voted no.

    Post # 6
    1802 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I voted no, but it really depends what it is. I would never steal something from the grocery store just because, but if for some reason we were desperate for something for some reason I would find a way to get it for him if it were absolutely necessary.

    Post # 7
    2142 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Only if I could justify it in my mind. Like no, I’m not going to go out and hurt people…but I would Bonnie and Clyde the shit out of my life (minus the killing of civilians) in the name of love.

    edited to fix a spelling error

    Post # 8
    592 posts
    Busy bee

    I love my SO, but I’m not murdering for him!

    But since you said something small I’m assuming maybe some sort of victimless crime? Victimless crime probably yeah. But I am totally uninterested in harming anyone or putting any life at risk to do so and that would rule out a majority of illegal activities. 

    Post # 9
    3077 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2015

    what exactly is being asked? Sell meth to that kid over there? “NO and we’re getting a divorce” lol Run that red light so we can make our movie? As long as there’s not a camera or cop.

    Post # 10
    3202 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    I trust DH enough that if he thought something were really important, I would probably go along with it. I mean, obviously not something truly awful, but he wouldn’t do something truly awful, so I’m thinking within the realm of possibility.

    Post # 11
    3442 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    I had a hard time answering this as it really depends on where my moral compass points in terms of what exactly he would be asking of me.

    Sure, I would drive with my tag light out in order to be his DD, & we did underage drink together in college. But if he asked me to shoplift or hurt someone, then no.

    I voted “Yes” though, as my husband & I agree for the most part about what is morally acceptable, so I’m sure he wouldn’t ask me to do something that would be ethnically reprehensible to either of us.

    Post # 14
    1072 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    This is a pretty pointless question unless we know exactly what is being asked. Jaywalking is technically illegal but we just about all do it on a daily basis. This question could apply to your spouse taking your hand and walking across the street or it could apply to your spouse asking you to commit fraud or violence. The first situation is obviously much more morally acceptable than the other.

    Post # 15
    1838 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    We weren’t talking about murdering people or robbing banks, more like stealing from a store becuase you don’t want to pay for it or  driving drunk.

    no to these two things. it would def depend on the specifics for other situations tho

    Post # 16
    6525 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @RheaIzar:  it depends especially if there are kids involved lol bc both of us cant go to jail if its something serious. So no, I would try to talk him out of it

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