Would you…

posted 3 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Would you travel for your BF's BS if it was 3 weeks after your wedding?
    Yes : (70 votes)
    97 %
    No : (2 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
    720 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @AnaA:  If they are your BF, you’d do anything for them to support them when they supported you through your wedding!

    Post # 4
    6812 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2014

    What’s the problem with it being 3 weeks after your wedding? That’s a month later..

    Post # 5
    3202 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    Of course! Why not? Unless you’re still on your honeymoon, I can’t think of any reason why you wouldn’t.

    Post # 6
    1864 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    @AnaA:  Yea… why wouldn’t I? 


    Post # 7
    252 posts
    Helper bee

    @AnaA:  It is after my wedding, three weeks none the less! I’d have been back from my honeymoon and well…done with my wedding. I expected my feeling to last for a long time after my wedding, but it was back to life as normal shortly after we got back from the honeymoon. I didn’t get the “wedding feel” again until I got my pictures back from my photographer.. then I spent a few days reliving the day, and picking which pictures to print and display and building a wedding album.

    So, yes, of course I would go to my BF’s bridal shower three weeks after my wedding.

    Post # 9
    351 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I might be dense and not understand the question, and if so, I’m sorry. I just don’t understand the problem! I guess if my honeymoon was delayed a few weeks and the honeymoon was during her shower, then I wouldn’t be able to attend. Or if I was really, really sick I couldn’t be there, of course.

    Otherwise, I’d definitely be there. She’s my best friend and I’d be SO EXCITED for her! My best friend recently recently drove 12 hours with a toddler to be my maid of honor. So I’d gladly travel just 3 hours for her shower.


    Post # 10
    42117 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @AnaA:  If it was on the weekend- absolutely. I doubt I could attend on a weekday as I wouldn’t get time off.

    Post # 11
    252 posts
    Helper bee

    @AnaA:  Well why isn’t she attending? My answer is, of course, under the assumption that I don’t have anything else planned. Is she not attending because it is 3 weeks after her wedding, or does she have other commitments that were made prior to your bridal shower plans?

    Post # 13
    252 posts
    Helper bee

    @AnaA:  I have to admit, I am a little confused by this, and my mind suddenly went to the time where women were seen as helpless little women who couldn’t fend for themselves. So, before I make a statement that could very well embarass me, I’m going to ask you to clarify what you mean by “he feels it is too soon for her to travel away from him by herself.”

    Post # 15
    435 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: January 2010

    My DH & I made a rule that for the fist year of marriage we wouldn’t stay over anywhere without eachother. Though we would definitely try to figure it out… we didn’t miss anything big because of our little rule- we would just travel together.

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