Post # 1
For those who go out socially with their husband/fiancé or S/O, How do you guys feel about them dancing with the opposite sex at an event/club? Does it bother you? Or is a dance, a dance? where do you draw the line?
Post # 3
I would not be ok with him dancing with a stranger at a club. I wouldn’t really care if he was dancing with a friend or family member. We don’t go out dancing or clubbing though. The only dancing he does is sometimes at weddings.
Post # 4
Are we taking ballroom, two step or swing style? No issues. If we’re talking basically clothed (well sometimes half clothed with the size of some women’s club attire) public pelvic thrusts and using men like stripper poles club dancing heck no.
Post # 5
A stranger at a club? I wouldn’t be thrilled, assuming it’s the close, sexy dancing I associate with clubs.
Now if he was dancing in an appropriate manner (slow dancing without being pressed up against her, or fast dancing with no contact) with a friend, no problem.
Post # 6
No, wouldn’t bother me at all. I’d probably be super proud that he was actually out dancing!
Post # 7
My FI is very jealous so he will not dance with anyone because he wouldnt want anyone dancing with me. I am totally okay with him being this way…I understand why he is…
Post # 8
In a club it would not be ok with a stranger (totally fine if a mutual friend)
On the other hand, there is social dancing- swing & salsa. I go regulary, he goes barely ever. Although if he WERE to go, I would expect he dance with strangers, lots of them, and all night long.
The two situations described above are completely different.
Post # 9
No problem for me unless its going beyond social dancing or just having fun… Ya know?
Post # 10
depends on the situation like PP mentioned….. totally platonic/ non sexy dancing with a friend (or even a stranger) would be fine
but grinding, dirty, sweaty only two thin layers of cloth away from sex on the dance floor…. thats an issue
Post # 11
I would be jealous but that’s because I don’t find it appropriate unless its a family member! we are both that way and the same thing would apply vice versa!!! But that’s just me 🙂
Post # 12
When I was thinking about this question, I feel like I have a double standard for this. I feel like it’s fun and ok for me to dance with people if I’m out at the bar/club with my friends (not the rubbing/thrusting dancing, but fun non-sexual dancing), but I feel like I would be super jealous if I saw FI dancing with someone else. I think part of the reason for that though is that he doesn’t really dance at all. So if he was dancing, I would want it to be with me, not with someone else.
I haven’t actually been out dancing in ages though, and usually just dance with my girlfriends..
Post # 13
Yah, I’d be mad. I also wouldn’t dance with anyone other than my girlfriends if I was out at a bar with them.
Post # 14
A stranger? No. Someone we know? Sure.
Post # 15
My SO doesn’t really dance, but hypothetically – the same as PP – with a stranger out at a club – no way, but with a friend or family member – sure.
Post # 16
- Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House
A stranger would be okay ask long as there was some distance, like I would never allow grinding, etc. But ballroom or something like that would be fine. He is very respectful of boundaries and doesn’t even want to overstep them.