Would you be comfortable if your so takes screenshots of his lady friends and

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I’m confused. Screen shots of what??

Post # 5
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Newbee

I would not be ok with that. What is his reasoning for needing a picture of one of his lady friends on his phone?

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2011

It would depend why.  If it was one of those things where their picture pops up when they call no issue at all.

Post # 7
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Busy bee

@Ap2010:  i would be weirded out if he was taking screenshots of ANYONE and saving it on his phone. Do these people know that he has their picture and is saving it?

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I don’t understand this.

Post # 9
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Busy bee

@AB Bride:  +1

that would be fine but if he is taking these pics wihtout them knowing and has no good explanation…weird

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@Ap2010:  You sound really young. Isn’t snap chat the app teenagers use to send naughty photos to each other?

Yeah, I’d be pissed. That’s odd.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee

@Ap2010:  Maybe if it was 1 or 2 because they were really funny or something. But anymore than that would start to get a little weird.

What kind of pictures are these? Silly? Sexy? Normal?

Probably not OK for anyones SO to do this.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Depends on what the picture is, how many he has, and why he has them. Is she doing something weird or epic? Is it a group photo? Does he just use it as her Contact photo so when she calls her face pops up?

If he’s just saving pictures of her because she’s pretty I think that’s kind of crossing the “friend” line and would get pretty angry.

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Ap2010:  Why is your SO on Snapchat talking to his “lady friends” to begin with? He sounds like a loser. You’re being played.

 

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

HEH??! That seems really weird to me, what the hell does he need to save a pic of his girl friends to his phone for? 

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

@Ap2010:  I don’t have snapchat so I don’t really get it. But from what I understand it’s photo-based messaging, right? I would find it weird if my SO regularly exchanged photos with any female. Texting is one thing, but why the need to exchange “selfies?” I don’t get it at all.

It seems very flirty and not at all relationship-appropriate.

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

I guess it depends why hes doing it.  Like a PP said is it so the picture comes up as caller id?  Was the picture particularly funny or cool and that’s why he’s saving it?  And does he do this for male friends as well?

If the answer to those questions are yes then I think it’s fine.  Other than that it would be odd.

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