Would you be jealous?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Would you be jealous/annoyed?
    Definitely jealous : (11 votes)
    6 %
    A little jealous : (20 votes)
    10 %
    Annoyed but not jealous : (64 votes)
    32 %
    Fine with it : (102 votes)
    52 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    4076 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @Chael:  I wouldnt be jealous, but I would be concerned. Just because she is female doesnt mean she is safe to be around and isnt going to kill him or steal his stuff.

    Post # 5
    Member
    3222 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    @Chael:  I wouldn’t be jealous. If my FH told me he left some other person stranded when he was in a position to help them, I’d be pretty upset with him. 

    Post # 6
    Member
    11379 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    @kerensa:  that would be my concern too. 

     

    @Chael:  yeah, she was locked in his room but i’m sure he has personal items in there that may hold some value.  i can’t believe he “locked” her in his room where she couldn’t get out unless someone unlocked the door.

    Post # 7
    Member
    2878 posts
    Sugar bee

    I wouldn’t be jealous, I would trust my SO’s version, especially if he told me on the phone the day after (maybe if I had learned this through some other friend and my SO would have hidden it from me, it would have drawn my suspicions), but no I would not feel jealous. I would wonder though, why she had followed 2 strangers to their hotels. If it happened to me I’d be terrified and I would have tried to go to the police station at least. Meaning, I would suspect the girl more than SO and his friend, hehe. 

    Post # 8
    Member
    291 posts
    Helper bee

    Nope, but I’m not a jealous person in general. I’d be more proud that he’d helped out someone in distress. 

    Post # 9
    Member
    7279 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    No jealousy. Concern about his safety yes and relief that it all worked out.

    @letigre:  +1

    Post # 10
    Member
    3442 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    @Chael:  Jealous definitely isn’t the right word. But I definitely be would uncomfortable with it, as he did not know this person that he offered to let stay in his home. She could have been dangerous or tried to pull something weird. Plus, it’s just odd to open your doors to a strange woman who may or may not be who she claims.

    I also find it really creepy that he locked her in a room. Wtf.

    That whole thing would give me the heebie jeebies.

    Post # 11
    Member
    6273 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: March 2014

    It’s a little weird, but I think the odds are pretty low that he did something sexual with her, so I don’t think I’d be jealous as much as weirded out and possibly concerned for his sanity.

    Post # 12
    Hostess
    22135 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I’d find it a little weird too but not something to be jealous over.

    Post # 13
    Member
    6866 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    I would find the whole thing totally inappropriate, including the  locking of her in his room.   He theoretically could have been accused of kidnapping!  Not only that, I find it difficult to believe that he couldn’t have thought of another way to help  without bringing her home with him. 

    Post # 14
    Member
    6505 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @letigre:  +1

    I would definitely not be jealous, however, if I found out that DH didn’t help someone like that out I would be pretty upset. I think since he was able to lock her in his room it was fairly safe to allow her to stay there.

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