(Closed) Would you be offended if I gave you a belated wedding present?

posted 5 years ago in Gifts and Registries
  • poll: Would you be offended if I gave you a belated wedding present?
    Yes : (7 votes)
    7 %
    No : (87 votes)
    93 %
  • Post # 3
    16216 posts
    Honey Beekeeper

    I wouldn’t be offended at all. How sweet and thoughtful of you to want to get your best friend and her new husband (to be) something special! If she’s aware of your plans, I’m sure she’ll understand and will probably be touched. 🙂

    Post # 4
    248 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    I would not be offended at all! Maybe give them a card on their wedding day, expressing your love for them and your plans. But regardless, a more thoughtful gift (even if belated) is wonderful!!

    Post # 5
    1348 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    I think technically you’ve actually got a year after the wedding to send gifts? I’m not positive on that though.

    Post # 6
    23 posts
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I think that’s a lovely idea and I would in no way be offended.  In fact I’m sure they’ll be very pleased and touched that you are going to the effort of finding something unique and meaningful to give to them.  (I agree it’s a good idea to let the bride know that is what you’re doing though, just to avoid any misunderstanding.)

    Post # 7
    2098 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I would never be offened if someone gave me a gift.

    Post # 9
    9217 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

    @JMPacker:  Heck no!  I love presents, whenever and wherever!  I would think it very thoughtful of you 🙂

    Post # 10
    91 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I think the great book of wedding rules says you have a year – however, a nice card on the wedding day would probably be appreciated, and you could let them know in the card that you plan on finding them something during your travels.  Just make sure you follow through!

    Post # 11
    6015 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    @KatieColorado:  +1

    besides it’s always nice to get a little something after the mad rush of gifts and rush of getting out thank you notes.  It’s like a little extra way to prolong the special time. 😀

    Post # 13
    469 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    A late present is better than no present. And a thoughtful present is better than an expensive one. 

    Post # 14
    445 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    Heck no I wouldn’t be offended, just give a card at the wedding and if you’re worried just explain to the bride what you told us!!

    Post # 15
    1497 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I would love such a thoughtful gift!


    Post # 16
    9073 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Nope. But I don’t expect presents or gifts, so it would be a surprise to me, truthfully. I wouldn’t be angry in the slightest.

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