Would you be ticked?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

It is a bit childish since you two had plans for this morning.  Make sure he knows that it is not something that is okay but if this is a one time deal I think it’s hard to make too big of a deal out of it.

Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

MichiganGirl24:  I’d probably be pissed off too.

But maybe his phone is dead? Playing video games? Out to brunch? But either way, he definitely should have contacted you once he woke up some how just for peace of mind.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper

MichiganGirl24:  He never does anything like this, so it’s not a recurring issue<br /><br /><br />

I mean, you kind of said it yourself. This isn’t an ongoing issue, so I would just let this one slide. I’m sure he just got super drunk and is probably still sleeping it off on their couch. No biggie, and the dog park will be there next weekend. If it was something he was habitually doing, then yeah– I would be pissed. Being that it isn’t, I just think it is a “pick your battles” type of situation.

 

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I agree that this annoying but not the end of the world. I would suggest that he could pay you back with a foot rub or making your favorite meal or something!

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY

If he went to bed past midnight and drunk, it’s not surprising he did not get up early.  If it’s not a recurring thing I would let it go.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013 - Rhode Island

I would reserve judgment until you hear from him.  He’s probably passed out from staying up late and drinking.  As long as he’s ok, I wouldn’t be upset.  You can always go on the hike another day. When he’s home and sober, explain to him that you were a bit worried/concerned since he didn’t call you sooner in the day given your plans together.  But again, if he was asleep he can’t be held responsible for not calling sooner.  IMO, it’s too early to start getting mad without more information.

Post # 9
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Blushing bee

MichiganGirl24:  Not sure I’d say he thought it was ok.  Hangovers can really knock your body out physically (probably sleep, like you said).  On the other hand, I’d question going out drinking when he knows about morning plans.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Nah. My guess is he slept in. Noon is nothing when you’re hung over. If it’s occasional there’s really nothing to worry about.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

MichiganGirl24:  What else should be doing? I mean you had already left so getting a nap in seems reasonable to me.

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Dallas, TX

MichiganGirl24:  It’s definitely annoying, but I don’t think you should be surprised. Sleeping in late and napping is pretty typical hangover behavior. Why didn’t you tell him the night before that it’s fine if he wants to stay out late and spend the night, but you don’t want to it to affect your plans in the morning? That’s what I would have done.

 

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

OK hold up. You’re sort of sounding like his mom now. It;’s his responsibility to do his school work and his fault if he doesn’t and his choice. You said this was something he doesn’t do often so I htink you gotta let go a bit. Talk to him about why you’re upset and next time make clearer boundaries.

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