Would you be upset?

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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Busy bee

I would be upset, although I do kind of feel that if you don’t want to risk those photos ending up online, don’t pose for them in the first place.

Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

No I wouldn’t really care. If your fiancé was that adamant about that type of picture being shared he shouldn’t have taken it in the first place. I think your anger is directed at the wrong person.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I would be upset and ask my husband to see to it that the picture was removed.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Christmas Tree Farm

I would only be upset if the picture was a surprise to me. If I didn’t know that H had gone somewhere that involved ring girls and I didn’t know that pictures were taken, I would be annoyed to find out about it via the internet. 

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Christmas Tree Farm

Jw1724:  In that situation, I would let it go. His friend is a jerk for posting the picture without his permission and then calling you uptight for asking him to clarify the caption, but getting upset about it and calling him out is only going to make you look like a jealous, overreacting wife who doesn’t want to let her husband have any fun.

To be clear: I’m not saying that you ARE jealous and overreacting, just that this guy will use your reaction to make you look that way to his friends and this situation doesn’t seem like it’s worth it.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014 - Norton Country Club

Could you or your FI make that comment on the picture? Could he untag himself?

I would be upset with the friend that didn’t adhere to his wishes too, especially since it became an issue after the fact.  However, it sounds like you are OK that it happened- you just didn’t want to have to answer the crappy questions that came after… Sounds like whoever texted you might have been trying to start something too… I feel like I’d have a quick “really?” moment with them too.

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