(Closed) Would you be upset?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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118 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Kinda looks like your at different stages in your lives now, and that is fine! I would accept it and just move on. Still be friends with them and invite them for lunches and what not, but it seems like they aren’t over the party stage yet. Don’t be hurt by it, I doubt they are intentionally trying to exclude you. 

Post # 5
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118 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I know how you feel! I’m going through the same thing with a lot of my friends, and Im not even married yet! My MOH has been amazing but it seems like once I got engaged a lot of my other friends don’t invite me to things anymore.. Maybe they just assume that we would rather be with our fiances and what not? I’m not sure! And it sucks seeing them post pictures on FB and what not but I’ve come to the realization that we are in different stages of life! I would suggest just doing your own thing and maybe that will lead you to making new friends! I just started a new gym in my city and I’ve already met so many new people from it … Just try to stay positive as I know you are hurting!! *hugs!!*

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I would move on and not take it personally. Wouldn’t it be nice to get closer to some friends who would really enjoy a fun personal lunch outing on a regular basis? Maybe when their life stages catch up to yours, you guys will find yourselves reconnecting again 🙂 

The same thing happened with several of my friends, I just never stopped to think twice about it because their idea of a good time isn’t mine any more, and we don’t owe it to each other to try and change. If they wanted to be flexible for me, they would be, and vice versa. 

Post # 7
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118 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@taeyers… great points, and I totally agree!!!

Post # 8
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2781 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Mrs.Jansen:  It sounds like since the majority of them are going through a divorce or already divorced, they are able to offer eachother alot of support. They probably enjoy ranting about their ex husbands and don’t want to bring you down from your happiness , or feel maybe you don’t understand what they are going through anymore. They did the wife thing and are now trying to find where exactly they fit now.  Why don’t you accept their invites for girls weekends away every now and then, you may be a newlywed but that doesn’t mean you need to be with your husband 24/7 one weekend every couple of months is actually only going to do good things for your marriage.

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