(Closed) Would you be upset if…

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee

I wouldn’t be upset.  Baptism and weddings have little to do with each other.  Are you afraid your friends will show up for that and not your wedding? Are you afraid it’ll outshine your wedding b/c honestly it wouldn’t even cross my mind?  To me, it’s a bit petty.

EDIT:  Petty is a harsh word, sorry about that.  I just don’t understand what you would be concerned about?

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

May I ask what would be going on two weeks before your wedding that you’re upset she’s having the baptism?  I really don’t think it’s anything to be this upset over that would consider having words with her.  Just my opinion.

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I wouldn’t be upset.  If it was on the actual day, or during that weekend, yes, I’d be peeved, but not 2 weeks before.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Honestly, the only reason i would be upset is if I thought people would travel to that, and as a result, be unable to travel again in two weeks for my wedding.  Otherwise, they’re such different events, and you’ll be busy, sure, but you can take time off for a baptism!

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Why exactly are you upset?  It’s two whole weeks before your wedding; I think there will be plenty of time for her to focus on you!  Just my opinion though.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee

No, I really wouldn’t be upset.  Unless it was the day of, before, or after, I really wouldn’t care.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

As long as it doesn’t keep her from any wedding related events then it shouldn’t bother you too much.

I know how you feel though. One our groomsmen (FI was in his wedding in May). Decided to take their honey moon (read above, they were married in May) two weeks before our wedding and couldn’t take anymore time off from work, so he was going to miss FI bachelor party. He ended up making it, but it was disapointing feeling like we were put on the back burner.

Post # 10
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Helper bee

No. I think they have nothing to do with each other.

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

I don’t think I would be upset, they are two completely seperate things. Plus i’m sure MOH is very excited for the baptism so just enjoy and help celebrate with her as I’m sure she will be celebrating with you on your big day!

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m not sure I understand why a baptism held two weeks before your wedding is such a big deal? Maybe if it was 2 days before, but two weeks seems plenty of time for her to get it over with and still be able to help you out as MOH.

Post # 13
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Busy Beekeeper

Why are you upset about it?  Is it conflicting with another wedding related event that weekend?

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

another vote for not understanding why this would make you upset.

Post # 15
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

I don’t understand why you are upset???

You should be happy for her.

I am sure she didn’t pick the date to make you mad at her.

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011 - Bartram's Garden

I agree with PP – I’m not sure why this would upset you.

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