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Would you care if your SO went here for lunch? Possibly NSFW

posted 1 year ago in Relationships
  • poll: Would you care?
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    Cash000    December 2, 2011   Canada

    Just for an ordinary, take a friend for lunch kinda work day?

    http://thetwistedkiltpub.com/kiltgirls

    Edit: I just looked at the heading servers, and they have a pretty good deal going on there, hair done, tanning, gym pass, travel bonus, full medical dental! hehe, wish they had one here! jk...

     
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    MrsNeutrino    July 2012  

    NSFW? I don't think I would care if we went

     
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    LGenz    May 21, 2011   New Jersey, Wedding in Clearwater, FL

    Wouldnt care, my friend was just b*tching that all the guys in her office like to go here for lunch and she always ends up getting dragged along lol.

     
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    firsttimemom    December 18, 2010  

    I don't see it's any different from the concept of hooters, so yeah. I'd be cool with it. 

     
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    Elarissa    June 18, 2011   Toronto

    It might bother me for a second.. but only that. I can never see him going to a place like that though.. he's more anal about that sort of thing than I am.

     
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    vmec    May 12, 2012   Vancouver

    Yeah I would. But I would also make and effort to not be the crazy jealous idiot that I really am.

     
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    Pomapoo    May 6, 2011   Maryland

    So it's a pub where all the servers dress like school girl fantasy strippers?  Yeah, I'd be a little concerned if my FI was into going there.  I'm sure he'd be weirded out if I spent my lunch break at a place where half-naked men served my food.

     
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    CanAmBride    September 25, 2010  

    Haha, I was just traveling for work to Denver and my 50-something year old male clients insisted we go there for a drink!

    Honestly, it was more of a joke than anything. It didn't bother me at all. It's just like hooters, I'm fine as long as my guy looks but don't touch!

     
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    iheartnerds    October 9, 2011   Massachusetts

    It looks like a way more awesome version of Hooters. If my FI went there, I'd probably be a little jealous... that he went without me!

     
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    cyndistar3    September 3, 2011   Post Falls ID

    I most certainly would...

     
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    missyjane77    April 7, 2012   Maryland, wedding in South Carolina

    Nope...FI actually goes there sometimes with his friends.  They do have really good food!

     
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    Cash000    December 2, 2011   Canada

    @MrsNeutrino:

    Ohh NSFW means,"Not suitable For Work", in case your boss walks by or something, lol. Just learned it yesterday!

     
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    roxy_angell13    May 28, 2011   Canada

    OoOo your from edmonton to?

    To answer your question no i wouldn't mind. It's only lunch and the girls are dressed skimpy but, at least they have clothes on. I was actually going to apply there for a part time position before i got a raise at work.  :)

     
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    MrsPinkPeony    June 4, 2011   Charleston, SC

    The food is really good so no I don't care.

    EDIT: Whoops! My bad a little, we have a Tilted Kilt where I live and its the SAME concept and THEIR food is really good. :)

     
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    mrs.jk    August 6, 2011  

    @Pomapoo: i've been considering coming up with a restaurant where male servers walk around half-naked. i'm thinking they'd wear banana hammocks and i'd call it something like, "wankers" it's only fair, right? Tongue out

     
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    KatNYC2011    September 24, 2011   London, UK (american expat)

    Not at all. Looks kinda like hooters maybe?

    I've been to Hooters a few times with a mixed group for a regular old "work lunch". I don't really see anything wrong with it. Although I wouldn't be surprised if the food wasn't very good.

     
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    totheislnds    February 12, 2011   NC

    we went the other night to watch the ufc fights :)

    though the food isnt very good - neither was the scenery...but i wouldnt care.

     
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    roxy_angell13    May 28, 2011   Canada

    @Pomapoo that's a good idea. We need more places aimed at ladies.

     
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    Cash000    December 2, 2011   Canada

    @roxy_angell13:

    Oh no no, I'm not from Edmonton, just someone, I won't say who, well her husband went there the other day, and I googled it, and was curious to see what other woman thought.

     
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    Pomapoo    May 6, 2011   Maryland

    Actually, I just looked at their website and servers get free gym membership, health benefits, free tanning, monthly hair salon visit, and manicures.  Where was this place when I was slaving away through college at the Cheesecake Factory and PF Chang's and paying for my own damn hair and nails?

     
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    Cash000    December 2, 2011   Canada

    @Pomapoo:

    hehe, I know! I notcied that too, lucky girls!

     
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    Koala Bear       Ontario, Canada

    Um I think I would want him to bring me too, but thats cause I love good food :P

     
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    napabridekelsey    August 13, 2011   Live in Corvallis, OR/Wedding in Napa, CA

    I wouldn't really care, but I'd wonder why he was going to a bar for lunch.

     
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    missyjane77    April 7, 2012   Maryland, wedding in South Carolina

    @MrsPinkPeony: Our's is Tilted Kilt too, but same concept, same outfits, etc.  LOVE their food!

     
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    bonbonisinlove    May 28, 2011   D.C.

    It looks like a Hooters type of place. Is this in Canada? I don't always understand why guys prefer to go to places like this. I've been once and it was mostly creepy old men. My fiance and other guy friends have told me they feel sorry for the girls who work at places like this. They know its the typical daddy issue girls who are usually pretty vain about their bodies and they are seeking attention in all the wrong ways. My fiance has never been into it but I'm sure he would be checking them out because it's hard not to. Awhile back we went to an ROTC convention where a bunch of the guys in uniform went to Hooters for lunch. My fiance actually got upset that the guys were going to Hooters because he thought it was disrespectful to the uniform and he knows civilians might think poorly of the guys who are laughing it up where women are basically being degraded.

     
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    Mrs. Puffin    September 14, 2013   Tacoma, WA

    Nah. It seems so much like Hooters. He probably wouldn't be into it. 

    And based on the benefits, uh... maybe I should move and work there. Hahaha.

    @bonbonisinlove: I'm not so sure it's always girls with Daddy issues. If I wasn't in such a committed relationship it might seriously be an option, because I make like, nothing in my current job! And hell. If I was paid to look good? Seriously, it would be tempting.

     
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    bonbonisinlove    May 28, 2011   D.C.

    Edit: But it is the woman's choice to work there. And don't think your guy isn't checking the women out! haha

     
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    Mrs.RDV    September 17, 2011   Canada

    Who cares, it is just a place to eat.

     
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    MrsCoachBtoBee    June 9, 2012   Alabama

    Yes and no.  I would just say we were going to see chippendales for lunch..

     
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    jackndiane       Atlanta

    @mrs.jk: lol. I don't think many women would pay for this. However, I would pay good money for a place where men were paid to give me massages, tell me how pretty I was, validate my feelings and listen to me talk about my day.

    In answer to the OP, no I wouldn't care. I love my bf, but he is kind of a helpless nerd. None of those girls would be after him, just his money for the "kilt jobs" or whatever.

     
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    clane616    May 7, 2011   Chicago; wedding in Florida

    It made me a bit miffed when my guy went there but I got over it.  My thought is guys notice pretty women no matter where they go but in reality it doesn't mean anything.  I trust him and trust the fact that those women want NOTHING to do with another man drooling all over them unless they are wealthy or a 10 and, well, neither of those apply to myself or my guy.  LOL 

     
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    rolling berry      

    No I wouldn't care.. not a big deal to me.

     
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    Miss Lilac    July 21, 2012  

    Ha! I just looked and I know one of those girls!

    No, I wouldn't care. It's a pub, not a brothel.

     
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    jo.lee    September 10, 2011   Indianapolis

    I feel the same way I do about it that I do about Hooters: if his friends all wanted to go I wouldn't care if he went, but if he was regularly hanging out there because he liked it I wouldn't be happy.

     
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    stephinPA    October 29, 2010   Reading, PA

    I wouldn't mind either.

     
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    mrs.jk    August 6, 2011  

    @jackndiane: no?! you wouldn't pay for that?! haha, me neither... but it would be pretty funny. maybe we could combine the banana hammock restaurant idea with your idea!

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    Wouldn't bother me!

    Just like I don't mind Hooters or Twin Peaks either.

     
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    KristenGotMarried    May 19, 2012   The Cbus

    Tilted Kilt is here in Columbus too :)  And no, no issues with FI going there for lunch or a night out. 

     
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    cbee    July 26, 2010  

    I find those places degrading to women, so I wouldn't be married to someone who supports that sort of establishment.

    My reasons for caring are not centered around "worrying" about him at all though.

    DH would never go there.  Not our style.

     
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    MissSawyer    September 1, 2012   Toronto, Ontario

    Really wouldn't bother me at all, actually I'd probably encourage it. I really don't get jealous of other girls around my guy because I trust him. The only jealousy would be me wishing I looked like that ;) haha.

     

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