Post # 1
Hello lovely bees!
So logged in to FB the other day… A girl had posted a pictures of a bunch of clothes packed up. The caption was, “To the left, to the left. I hope all those females were worth it. Good luck find a broad dumb enough to date your A** ever again.” (something very close to that…not EXACT words).
And tagged the guy she was breaking up with.
I thought it was a joke, but all the comments were like, “You go girl!” and “Hardest thing to do but you are so strong!” and things like that…
Post # 3
I believe it, but my first thought was “don’t air your dirty laundry in public”
Post # 4
Wow. I could never, ever do that myself, but if she finds it cathartic and there’s no real backlash, power to her I guess!
Post # 5
I think it depends how serious the relationship was it how long they have been together along with why they’re breaking up.
Would I do it? No.
Post # 6
Okay, so more information without revealing identity… She is less than 21 years of age, and they have been together less than two years. They did not live together (I don’t think). I think the clothes were just things he kept at her house.
Post # 7
@MissHobbit: Always comes back…doesn’t it? Haha.
@Jezika: That’s kinda how I feel. I was def just surprised lol
Post # 8
I had a FB friend from high school and she and her boyfriend would LITERALLY break up every week. When they would break up, she would talk mad smack and say “I don’t know what I was thinking, being with that crazy douche for so long…” etc etc. Then they would get back together and she would tell everyone not to talk shit about their relationship.
As long as that girls not doing that, I think it’s kinda funny. But I would never do it because I’m a private person.
Post # 9
I hate it when people post their personal drama out there for the world to see, that is what girlfriends are for. Pick up the phone and call them, text them if you have to, but the world doesn’t need to know.
I had to hide a couple from my FB feed as they are always breaking up and fighting over FB, awkward and irritating.
Post # 10
Yep. A girl I know through family friends does this stuff all the time. She would have public FB fights with some of her exes and their friends would even get involved… awkward! Let’s just say she was never the sharpest knife in the drawer.
Post # 11
@FutureMrsJohnson_: Hahah I have a FB friend like that too…Seriously, every other week. Seriously. I never know if they are together or not! This particular friend (not the one in the OP) posted a DV problem with him, then got back together with him and won’t like anyone talk about their DV issue… It’s very scary!
Post # 12
I know a girl who posted about her bf cheating on him then married him less than a year later. too much info
Post # 13
It would depend on how badly someone fucked with me. In a clear state of mind- no. I would never do this. But when I’m black out mad, I’m absolutely this nuts.
When I used to live in a flat with 5 housemates in university, I had my car keys hanging on a rack beside the front door. One morning a friend of a housemate (a mutual “friend” of mine) stole my car while I was sleeping and went to go buy cigarettes. She ended up hitting something and taking my side mirror off, and then just parking my car and pretending like it never happened. A few days later I found out it was her, so I loaded up an iphone screen shot of her texting me about how she found out she had genital herpes, and tagging her.
To be fair, it was 4 years ago and I like to think that I’ve matured since then. But to be fair-er, she stole my new car and damaged it, and then didn’t even have the courtesy to confess and offer to pay for the damage.
So yeah, I’m enough of a dick to do something like this.
Post # 14
@tksjewelry: I LOVE the hide feature… OMG
Post # 15
@Pinkmoon: Oh my goodness, I laughed out loud about that! That would actually be a teeny bit entertaining at times. I’d definitely hide her from my feed otherwise though. lol.
Post # 16
No. Never. One of my husband’s friends posted a similar thing about how her husband cheated on her while deployed and she wrote this whole thing about he was an embarrassment to America, and had this whole apology to the Army.
I felt bad for her but it invited so much drama. Plus they have kids. Keep that shit in counseling or divorce court.