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Would you ever tell your FI/DH they stink? :D

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    al1988    June 17, 2012  

    SOOOO Be honest!! would you EVER tell your FI/DH that he had bad breath? or stank? Or basically anyhing bad about themselves? Hahaha my sister was complaining about her bf saying that he has really bad breath and doesnt know how to tell him lmaooo.. Omg I dont kno how I can ever tell my FI. What bout you?

     

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    Yep I tell him and he tells me.

     
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    Miss Biner    November 5, 2011  

    Dude!  I tell him all the time.  And I fart like crazy, so he lets me know too.  I'm secretly hoping I get picked to blog this round so I can be Miss Skunk.  :)

     
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    lefeymw    April 16, 2011   CT

    Yup and I have! Especially morning breath and kisses don't mix

     
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    lefeymw    April 16, 2011   CT

    dbl

     
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    Hell yeah I would lol.  She can just subtly start offering him a lot of Listerine strips or breath mints.  ;p

     
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    RahlyRah    June 9, 2012   Baltimore, MD

    I have no problems telling my FI when he stinks!  He does the same to me.  I think it is kind of mean not to tell them...who wants to walk around all day with bad breath?   

     
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    jamithebride    March 24, 2012  

    Oh yeah. I tell him all the time and he tells me.

     
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    Running Elley    June 19, 2011   Fresno, CA

    Oh I definitely feel comfortable telling him!!

     
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    PutABirdOnIt    December 30, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    OMG.  YES! His breath was like death the other morning.  It actually made me dry heave.  And I told him so. lol  And I would expect him to the same, of course.

     
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    MrsMaine    May 29, 2011   Boston, MA

    Ah, I tell him all the time! Or I just hand him the mouth wash :) He pretends to be offended.

     
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    jumpthegun    June 23, 2013  

    I have told him, and he has told me. I wouldn't want him going out in public with a stinky mouth or stinky armpits. 

     
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    JulesSchnooks    July 30, 2011   Maryland

    Unanimous yes.

     
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    SuperKate    May 28, 2011   Missouri / Playa del Carmen, Mexico

    If he stinks, I tell him bluntly. He does the same for me. 

     
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    Take The Reins    August 11, 2012   Canada

    I tell my FI all the time...he did not have good dental hygiene while growing up, nor is he fond of the dentist.  I basically told him don't kiss me until you get that checked out lol.  He has, and is getting it dealt with.  I have a very sensitive nose...I pick up on bad odours before any one else, except my dog lol.

     
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    RayRayFurious    May 2013   NJ

    Yep. I definitely tell him that he's funky. And he does the same for me.

    Just be honest. Nice. But honest.

     
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    SpecialSundae    April 21, 2012   Dunfermline, Fife, Scotland, UK

    Yup, if he stinks I'll tell him.

    He, however, always thinks I smell nice. Silly puppy!

     
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    mittens111211    November 2011   Portland, Oregon

    I have this fear that I smell bad... not to sure where it came from, but I always ask him if I'm a bit funky, but him? oye, he is really sensitive about it, he's always been "a bit smelly" as he says to me and he was picked on as a kid because of it. he's pretty aware of it, so I usually don't have to tell him.

     
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    vmec    May 12, 2012   Vancouver

    Oh yes.

    Do you think I want him to walk around and people saying "god, he stinks... how on earth does someone, ANYONE deal with that?"

    ...Becasue that's what I think about people who stink.

     
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    MrsStrawberry24    March 24, 2012   Bartlett, IL

    GIRL I LET HIM KOW!!!!!!! because he does the same!!

     
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    mittens111211    November 2011   Portland, Oregon

    @vmec: I think the same thing and I think that's why I'm paranoid that I smell bad! lol.

     
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    MsPanda    August 17, 2013   Oregon

    I would be more mad if Fi didnt tell me! If he is stinky I just give him a towel (if he needs a shower) or hand him the mouth wash.

     
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    funkyone8604    September 10, 2011   MN

    Oh yeah!  FI works in a hot shop all day and I tell him he is smelly when he sits down next to me and tries smoochin up on me! 

     
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    katiesee    August 11, 2012   Binghamton, NY

    oh all the time! i don't think i'd be ready to marry him if i couldn't tell him that he stinks haha

     
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    Eva Peron    November 2011  

    Honesty is the best policy ;)

     
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    pinkshoes    July 2011   MA

    Yup... I tell him all the time if hes stinking and should go hop in the shower!

     
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    TankGirl    September 22, 2012  

    Oh, totally. He's actually more conscious of his own stank than I am, I'll be like "Whatever, you just smell like clean sweat," and he's over there like "I'll be in the shower, you don't need to know how I smell right now." It's cute. But we absolutely tell each other when there's funky breath going on or anything like that.

     
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    elemikaylaphant    July 15, 2012   Augusta Georgia

    lol. this is funny. But yes, I do tell him if he stinks. :)

     
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    couawilou    October 20, 2012   Toronto, Ontario

    I tell him all the time and he does the same to me.

     
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    cortneyc    October 13, 2012   Hayward/Portland

    He says I always smell good, but I don't believe him!

    I had to tell him he was stinky last night. I sleep on his shoulder most nights and it's hard to get sleepy when your nose is inches away from a stinky armpit!

     
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    kperry3    January 1, 1991  

    Do people really have a problem with this? Like for real? I tell my DH all the time that he smells... he does a labor job right now, so he comes home smelling so stank! And I tell him to go take a shower. And if his breath smells I tell him. I don't see anything wrong with this. He gets mad sometimes... but it's not like I make him go immediately and brush his teeth. I just like to make fun of him :)

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    Of course I tell him if he stinks!  And he does the same with me.  I can't fathom not being able or willing to do this.

     
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    Gemstone    July 2011   Cincinnati

    My husband told me that I can always tell him if he smells bad/needs a shower. Sometimes, he comes home from golfing thinking that he didn't sweat much and therefore doesn't smell bad, but if I think otherwise, he wants to know.

    He's smart enough to realize that the better he smells, the closer I will cuddle to him. :)

     
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    bRooklynRocks      

    I hate bad breath. And that is one reason why morning after breath kills me. I jump out of bed to gurgle or brush my teeth if I want to bring my mouth near anyone. Ugh. I live in NYC and whenever I smell someone with body odor or bad breath, I wonder how come they or anyone around them doesn't notice it before they live the house. Sometimes the smell is enough to induce dry heaves :(

     
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    Moose1209       Nashville, TN

    Of course I tell him.  If you're comfortable enough with someone that you are MARRYING them then you should be able to tell them when they are stinky!

     
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    joy2011    October 22, 2011   NE Ohio

    haha, yes! He DOEs have very bad breath sometimes, and I tell him that! (BUT... especially for a guy, he NEVER has stinky feet or stinky anywhere else! I am so lucky! :-D )

     
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    2PeasinaPod       Philadelphia

    Absolutely! I don't want him walking around with bad breath stinking other people out! LOL...he always teases me when he has a bat in the cave that he notices later and I didn't notice or tell him. Same goes for when his fly is down. He totally blames me for not noticing before he walks out the door Smile

     
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    Riki_Bay    September 28, 2013   Floral Park, NY

    @Miss Biner: Amen to fart wars! lol

    Of course I tell him when he stinks and he does the same to me, its called being comfortable with one another. Just yesterday at work he texted, "Bay, your ass was horrible last night, no more taquitos for you!"

     
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    soyjoy222    June 1, 2012   PA

    He tells me and I tell him. Life is easier that way.

     
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    UpstateCait    October 7, 2011   Upstate, NY

    Of course I would tell him. You should be honest with your partner. He's certainly not shy about telling me when I'm not smelling springtime fresh!

     

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