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posted 3 months ago in Career
  • poll: What would you choose if you were me?
    Buy a home and keep working the corporate job. : (16 votes)
    30 %
    Keep renting and go for the dream! : (37 votes)
    70 %
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    kate169    May 21, 2011   Virginia

    The other day I got really pissed at my job and decided to myself I would see how much money I needed to take my photography business full time and set a date for quitting. Well I added up what I would have by the end of the year if I save my butt off and it's ALMOST enough to put a small down payment on a home. I really hate my job and am so passionate about my business...BUT I also want to be a homeowner. I've told myself I'm young enough to do both (follow my dream and own a home later on down the line) but I'm still not sure what the right thing to do is.

    What would you do if you found yourself in my situation? Use the savings to pursue your dream or own a home? My husband said he doesn't care if we own a home or rent, but he wants me to be happy either way.

     
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    Nicoso    August 4, 2012   Ottawa, ON

    Just a suggestion..

    If you put the downpayment on a house and wait a year you could use the equity against your house to start your photography business.  Interest rates will be much lower this way than taking a loan or putting your expenses on a credit card.

    Plus you'll have the stability of a home (you could set up a professional photography studio in a bedroom) and the bonus of building credit.  Also, if you set up a studio at home, you can claim a lot of your home expenses on your taxes: heat, electricity, office supplies etc.

    My hubby does this with his masonry company.  Works out nicely for us.  Only downside is that we had to sacrifice the garage and most of the basement for his supplies and tools.

     
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    MrsSl82be    October 24, 2009  

    I don't think its crazy to try and do both. Get your business going, and in a few years, buy a home.

    I will say though, my SIL is a photographer, and you wouldn't believe the explosion of crappy "photographers" that are cropping up nowadays. Anyone with a nice camera and the time to create a Facebook page thinks they have what it takes. She used to be the only person in her area, and now there are at least 30 people, in a relatively small town

     
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    kate169    May 21, 2011   Virginia

    @Nicoso:  I definitely am not comfortable taking out a loan to support my business. I prefer to fund it myself from money I've saved lol. I feel safer about it that way. I also forgot to mention my husband and I have less than stellar credit *cough* and I don't even know if we could qualify for a loan.

    @MrsSl82be:  Yeah photography is a difficult business to survive in just because the market is SO saturated. It sucks but it does make me more motivated to stay on top of my game. There are hundreds of photographers out here.

     
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    bookworm88    August 4, 2012  

    If you have bad credit, I'd put your money into a home and building good credit.  Yes, photography is your passion, but can you do that on the weekends? Can you go part-time and try to start up photography and see if it's sustainable? 

     

     
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    zippylef    October 30, 2010   Norfolk, UK

    @kate169:  I think if you are realistic about a photography business then you can succeed. I know that when I was looking at photographers, I looked for one that was:

    1) Flexible on pricing

    2) Willing to build a package around my needs

    3) Friendly and prompt communication

    4) Showed a range in style

    5) Willing to take a risk and do something offbeat

    I actually ended up finding my photog at a bridal show because they had these massive prints up of a zombie engagement shoot they did. My photogs were amazingly friendly, totally into my crazy ideas and willing to go out of the box and give me exactly what I wanted. Coincidentally, they were trying to break into the more offbeat market at the time and get away from old-fashioned, posed pictures and were willing to give me a huge discount to fit into my small budget. We both won. I have amazing wedding photos and almost a year and a half later, they still use my pictures as promotional material.

    I did talk to a lot of photogs when I was planning that were too fixed on their pricing and packages and not willing to work with me. Yeah, they didn't get my business.

    Personally, I voted to follow your dream and buy a home later. I'd rather live in a crappy apartment and love my life than work a crap job and own a home. Do your business now and buy a house in a couple years.

     
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    mypinkshoes    April 28, 2012   mexico/ontario

    @kate169:  if you quit your job to fulfill your photography dream, would you be bringing in the same amount of income?  probably not at the beginning.  it will take a while to get yourself established in your new field.   i would suggest keeping your job (bite the bullet for now) and buy the house and start the photography business on the side; part time.  as you build your business, then you can buy more photography equipment as needed and start to work less at the job you dislike.  you can make a smoother transition this way without affecting your monthly budget.  as pp mentioned, you can also use a lot of your bills from your house as business expenses.

     
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    TopazWedding    June 9, 2012  

    My photographer was working in a corporate job last year also, quit it and took up photography full time.. You have to do what makes you happy! I personally would follow my dream.. although I've been following it for 4 years and it's gotten me no where (trying to get into professional school).

     
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    AirForceWife78    October 19, 2013   Live in Colorado Springs, CO. Wedding in Madera, CA

    Life is too short, home ownership is overrated, pursue your dream!

     
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    kate169    May 21, 2011   Virginia

    Thanks for all the responses guys! But just to clarify, I already have a photography business, but I do it part time on weekends and spend time editing/blogging/adminstration/office stuff during my time off from the day job. So I wouldn't be starting a new business, I would be taking what I already have to the next level and dumping the job I hate. I actually have the potential to make a little more as a wedding photographer even in my second year because I don't make that much at my corporate job. I hate my job so bad I sometimes cry at my desk. But I do really want to own a home so its a tough choice.

    @bookworm88:  Can you get approved for a mortgage if you have bad credit? We are working on the credit thing right now by making monthly payments on an auto loan we have (neither one of us had much credit and we weren't smart with what we had to begin with).

     
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    bookworm88    August 4, 2012  

    I'm not sure how your mortgage would be with bad credit, but I think paying off the credit is the first step, regardless of house or photos or job choices.  Whichever job can best help you do that should be your choice. 

    Curious- if you already do the job, why are you calculating all the money you'd need to take it full-time? I'm not seeing where that money would go?

     
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    Nicoso    August 4, 2012   Ottawa, ON

    You can get approved for a mortgage if you have the finances to back it.  If you have a downpayment and you both have steady jobs (don't say anything about wanting to quit yours) then the insurance might be a bit higher, but they have no right to refuse you. 

    Do you have a credit card (through same bank that you would apply for a mortgage) that you could prove you're trying to improve your credit?

     
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    kate169    May 21, 2011   Virginia

    @bookworm88: A lot of it is my husband's student loans. He wasn't working for a while after graduation and didn't have the money to pay them so he let them go and he's just now finally getting things out of default. We actually have less than 800 in credit card debt and I plan on paying that off by this summer unless something crazy happens.

    Since I'm working full time now I'm used to getting a paycheck every two weeks of the same amount. When I start doing photography full time (thats my only income) I'm worried it will be a rough transition since I'm used to being paid a lot more frequently so I wanted to have a decent nest egg before leaving the security of my full time job. Just so I don't have to stress about making my car payments, paying taxes, etc before wedding season is in full force again. Wedding photography is seasonal so there is definitely a low season in the winter months where we don't make as much. Does that make sense? I just want my savings to help me set myself up to succeed.

     
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    mittens111211    November 2011   Portland, Oregon

    If you really want to get out now, the first place that I would start is to look at your upcoming year and assess oppurtunities to book clients. Start marketing yourself via social media and see what the response is. If you can schedule steady work (at least one wedding a month? or maybe 3-4 portraits sessions) than I would probably sit down and really really hash things out.

    Honestly though, I would save up, buy the house and then go for it.  That light at the end of the tunnel will help you with your everday struggle. Do you have any flexibility to change jobs from what you're currently in?  Check craigslist or such for Photography studios that might be looking to hire. 

     
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    zagora    May 5, 2012   Washington, DC

    @kate169:  It's very difficult to buy a house if you're self-employed, because banks see that as a red flag, unless you've been established for a good while.  They like to see stable income source (preferred: at the same employer for 2 years or more).

    It may make sense to buy a house first and then go into business for yourself.

     
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    MrsWrangler    October 2, 2010   Florida

    Personally, I say go for your dreams, but that's coming from my own perspective where I can take or leave ever being a homeowner (my husband and I plan to buy a condo, eventually, but we don't have any current plans to buy a house at all haha) but I can never imagine doing a job I loathed while I have the opportunity to do a job I love. I think you have to weigh which one makes you happier at the moment - will the immediate relief of having a job you love supercede your sadness at not having a house you own yet? And to be honest, I think you can always buy a home... there might be a more golden window for picking up your business to the next level though.

     
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    SoupyCat    February 6, 2010  

    @kate169:  If you hate your job so much it makes you cry, I think you should definitely follow your dream!! A house isn't a home if it doesn't make you happy. In fact, you might resent it one day if you have to give up your dream for it. You only live once, so follow your dream to be a photographer!

     
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    SoupyCat    February 6, 2010  

    Ok I saw another response that said it's hard to buy when you are self employed. That is really true. Could you afford to buy now and hold off into jumping into full time photography a little while? Plus, if you have a home, you can get all sorts of tax deductions for having a home office in your house. Good luck!

     
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    nickels    September 3, 2012  

    Well, I would hold off and buy the home. I only say this becasue most mortgage approvals will take into consideration how long you have been at your current job. If you have been there less than a year that works against year. So if you leave and satart full time at photog job you'll prolly have to wait at least another year before getting a mortgage, unless your DH can get one under just his name (probably won't be approved for as much).

     
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    kate169    May 21, 2011   Virginia

    I read somewhere you can deduct home expenses when your office is your home even if you rent...is that not true? The more I think about buying a home I start to feel stressed out imagining myself at my full time job any longer than I have to be lol. I really hate it here.

    @mittens111211:  Not sure I can find a comparable job to what I have now. I don't have a degree so I was probably lucky to get what I have. Plus I need the vacation I acrrued here to do Friday weddings I've booked already.

     
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    SoupyCat    February 6, 2010  

    @kate169:  Yes, you can deduct home office expenses even if you rent. I guess it's just lot more for owning because you deduct mortgage interests when you own. Although you might be able to deduct that anyway when you itemize.

     
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    mittens111211    November 2011   Portland, Oregon

    @kate169:  How does your husband feel about you quitting and going full time with photography? Would/Can he help pickup the financial slack that might occur?

     
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    kate169    May 21, 2011   Virginia

    @mittens111211:  He says he wants me to be happy no matter what and has even said he would work overtime if he had to so I could pursue my dream. I don't want him to have to do that, but I'm really glad he supports me going after it.

    @SoupyCat:  Ohh I see. Well that makes sense. Too bad I can't deduct our whole rent. That would be amazing lol.

     
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    mrs.folks.to.be    May 2012   St. Thomas, USVI

    Persue your dream!!!!!! Do well in your business and then buy your dream house! 

     
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    lawgirl12    March 2012  

    Persue your dream! You'll always wonder what if, and really may miss out on being fully happy AND being a homeowner later down the line. That's what we're doing. Instead of buying a great house this summer, we're following my dream and packing up and moving across country to start our new lives together.

     

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