(Closed) would you give fh a 3way?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2018

There is no way I would do that, to me and FI it is cheating, even if they willingly go along with it, as it is having sex with someone else.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Nope. Neither of us would be ok with it. We’d consider it cheating

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Nope, no way do I ever want to share my man with someone else, or him be with someone else while I was there. I’d feel hurt and betrayed even if went along with it at the time. Not to mention I’d wonder if he thought she was better then me. Nope, couldn’t do it.

 

 

 

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

If he wanted a three-way from me he wouldn’t be my partner.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee

No way. Three ways hardly ever turn out well. They mostly cause bitterness, jealousy, resentment and hurt feelings. Pass!

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

I would honestly rather not.  I feel like 3-ways are something you do in college, when you’re just fooling around.  Now that I’ve found the man that I want to spend the rest of my life with, I don’t want to do anything that might tarnish our relationship, and honestly 3-ways don’t normally end well for the couple.   I would say that if its something he’s serious about, then I’d at least consider it.  I don’t like to deprive him of his sexual desires, without at least thinking & talking about it first.  But luckily, my love doesn’t too much care for the idea of a 3-way anyhow. We’ve talked in depth about it a few times over the years.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@Idunn:  +1 I wouldn’t be getting married to him. My marriage is much more private and sacred in itself.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

We joke about it, but we joke about lots of stupid stuff we don’t do XD. Honestly I just wouldn’t understand the logistics of how it’d work, ahurr.

Post # 12
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

@tampalove35:  Exactly. We’re not talking about some random relationship here, but my future spouse. It’s way too valuable for that sort of experiment.

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Nope, I cant share.

Post # 14
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Helper bee

I feel like that would be too complicated. I’m not against group sex or polyamory but I feel like me and him is the perfect number.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee

I find it funny how your question is posed… I think I’d like one more than my FH! But I’d have to get over some insecurities first, and honestly, I don’t think it’s worth it. If one of us ends up reacting badly after the fact, there’s nothing you can do to take it back.

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