Post # 1
I’m the type of person who tries to settle and make things fit rather than keep putting in the effort to find the right fit. And I never seem to learn my lesson. 🙂
I’ve found a photographer who meets so many of my requirements. He has an amazing price. The package includes the time I want, the album I want, and an engagement session.
Two drawbacks… One is that I just don’t really click with him personally. The other is that this guy only has 3 yrs experience with weddings and I think he’s mostly done Indian weddings. (I am not Indian). He’s never heard of a ‘first look’ or ‘reveal’ and this is something I think I want to do. Fiance has a huge family and I feel like post-ceremony picture time will be eaten up with lots of family pics. I want to get the bridal party and bride/groom pics out of the way ahead of time.
Would you take a risk for the great price? I know lots of people get great deals by going with less experienced photographers. Do you ever regret your choice?
Or should I keep looking and I’m bound to find the right fit somewhere?
Post # 3
I say keep looking. One of my friends recommended her photographer to me, and while his work was absolutely amazing, he was a total d*ck when we met with him. I had to spend a lot of my day with my photographer, and I wanted to make sure we clicked personally, and we just plain didn’t. I didn’t hire him for that reason alone, and I’m so glad for it. The guy who ended up being my photographer was amazing. He had a great personality and was such a good sport with all different sorts of things.
I just think it’s important to really get along with your photographer and for him/her to have experience in the photos that you’ll want. So my vote is to keep looking :o)
Post # 4
I’d be more concerned that you don’t click with him. First looks aren’t rocket science, he could probably figure that part out but you want someone who will put you at ease.
Post # 6
- Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry
I wouldn’t be concerned about him not have done a first look- I would more concerned that you didn’t click with him, and that he might be a little new to wedding photography. (You can show the photographer other reveal/first look photos as examples.)
What do you think of his portfolio? Keep in mind that you’re going to have your photos forever. I have friends who scrimped on wedding photos, that say it’s a regret later on. (Ex: One had SIL take photos of ceremony, but she didn’t get as many at the reception, since SIL was also a guest.)
Would you take a risk for the great price? – Personally, no. You can always find an inexpensive photographer. And you have a lot of time before your wedding, so I’d suggest keep looking until you find someone you click with, and whose work you really like.
Post # 7
Well, how happy are you with his photos? Has he let you look at samples of full weddings (as opposed to just the highlights)?
In principle I wouldn’t have a problem with hiring a photographer who hadn’t shot a first look as long as I thought they were talented and had good instincts. But if he hasn’t even heard of them, to me that indicates that he’s not put any real time or effort into keeping up with current trends or new ideas and I would be worried about photos looking dated/old-fashioned.
Post # 8
It doesn’t hurt to do some more searching….I mean as far as a wedding ceremony is concerned you would think the photographer would know what the first look is…..but just my opinion!
Post # 9
Definitely keep looking–I agree that the first look, etc. themselves aren’t too difficult to do simply, but they’d be very difficult to capture well if you don’t click with him (I think the photographer needs to click with you well enough to get a sense of your style and what types of things to capture about you and your FH!).
Post # 10
Yes, keep looking, if he hasn’t even heard of a “first look” he is not for you!
Post # 11
I just feel so bad and selfish saying ‘no’ just because I don’t like his personality. It seems so trivial.
But that’s why all of you are here to knock some sense into me. 🙂
I mean I’ll be spending 10 hours with this guy. I should probably like having him around.
Post # 12
@koi424: “I mean I’ll be spending 10 hours with this guy. I should probably like having him around.”
This exactly! You’re going to be spending a TON of time with this guy on the most important day of your life. You want to be able to like him and not mind having him around. The more I thought of that other photographer who was such a jerk, the more I realized that he ate up SO MUCH of my friend and her groom’s time on their wedding day. If I had hired him, it probably wouldn’t have ended well.
Don’t feel bad and selfish saying no b/c you don’t like his personality. You don’t have to tell him that’s why you’re saying no! Just let him know you’ve decided to go in a different direction…away from him :o)
Post # 13
Don’t feel bad or selfish!!! It’s your wedding day and you should enjoy every moment of it. You don’t owe him anything, not even an explanation. You’ve decided to go in a different direction, that’s all. If he can’t handle rejection he’s in the wrong business.
Post # 14
I’d be more worried that you don’t ‘click’. Keep looking.
Post # 15
The first look thing isn’t that big of a deal. Like a previous poster said, it’s not rocket science, although I do put quite a bit of thought into the first look for my clients.
I’d be more concerened that you don’t “click” with him. You spend most of your day with the photographer, it’s important you like them. I always tell my clients that they’ll see me more than anyone on their wedding day, and it’s important to have a great realtionship.
Post # 16
Definitely keep looking. Don’t sacrifice the quality of your pictures (both in what he is capable of doing and how you mesh with him on the day of) for a good price. You can save money in other ways.