Would you let your SO see your posts on Weddingbee?

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: Would you let your SO see your posts?
    No : (18 votes)
    11 %
    Yes : (90 votes)
    57 %
    Maybe...it depends on what it's about : (46 votes)
    29 %
    I like polls! : (4 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
    4540 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2014 - Royalton White Sands

    If he really wanted to, then of course I’d let him! But it does kind of freak me out for no reason… it’s like if he wanted to go through my phone. I have NOTHING to hide, but it would still somehow feel weird. 

    Post # 4
    1343 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I don’t think I would be nervous. Sometimes I let him read my posts anyways. Now if I needed to vent directly about him, maybe? But only because I think he would feel weird about me talking to complete strangers about him. I’m pretty much an open book with him though! Even when I shouldn’t be… 

    Post # 5
    163 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: Camp Hope

    I’m hoping for a proposal soon and have been posting about it. I’m paranoid he will see it and decide to wait a little longer. I let him see what I am posting about when we are together but I always post things about a proposal while he is away (like now). He also knows that I go here to vent so I don’t bug the crap out of him about wedding stuff. He tends to leave me alone unless he thinks I’m posting about an engagement. 

    Post # 6
    496 posts
    Helper bee

    NO! Because all my posts are on the waiting site and about how upset I am about my situation or I am responding to other people’s posts. He wouldn’t even understand why I am on here much less why I care to respond to other people’s issues or say congrats etc. Either way I don’t want him to see them. It just makes me feel squeamish

    Post # 7
    9412 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    @LadyBlackheart:  Sure. I don’t talk about my relationship here though. The only person I discuss my marriage with is my husband. Some of the threads I’ve read on here, I can understand why people wouldn’t want their partners to see…however, I can’t understand why they wouldn’t go to their partner to begin with rather than soliciting strangers for advice.

    I will speak about other relationships on here – friendships, siblings, parents, etc. but no intimate details. I am a private person, even online. Having said that, I don’t keep any secrets from MrPanda99. He knows my name on here, he knows all my passwords, so sure, he could read it all (if he has a few weeks). He could even post as me if he felt like, but don’t worry – you’d be able to tell the difference, lol.

    Post # 8
    342 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    I’d let him if he lit a fire about it, and I’m really not hiding anything. But I’d be about as comfortable letting him dabble in my account here as I would letting him sit in on “girl talk” with my friends here. Women are from Venus, and no matter how nonjudgmental a guy is, we still seem a little weird… What with our over analyzing and over emotionalizing and such. So no thanks, I’ll avoid him getting on my account as long as I can!

    Post # 9
    737 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I wouldn’t mind him seeing but I would rather have my privacy.

    Post # 10
    627 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014 - Scottish Rite Cathedral (New Castle, PA)

    My FI gets on weddingbee fairly often, just to look around and see if there’s anything interesting. He usually skips right to the intimacy section though :p It doesn’t bother me but we’re both really open, we go through each others phones, we know each other’s passwords to accounts/social networks. I don’t know if he really goes through the effort to hunt down my posts but it doesn’t bother me either way.

    Post # 11
    249 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    All the time. He finds it highly amusing. The only ones I hide are those that have anything to do with my dress. 

    Post # 12
    2319 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    If he wanted to see the posts – I’d let him. He has no interest in message board type places though. I’m surprised he even enjoys Facebook.

    Post # 13
    351 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    I would have no issues. The only thread I wouldn’t want him to see is any pictures of my dress. But other than that, I’d be okay. I mostly summarize anything I post about to him anyways. He is usually amused. 

    Post # 14
    2818 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Eh. Sure. I haven’t said anything that I’m afraid for him to find out.

    Post # 15
    783 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    Sure. I never post anything really personal. I am a private person. The things I do post, I usually read out loud to him (if I find the topic interesting).

    Post # 16
    5222 posts
    Bee Keeper

    Nah– I don’t care. He has zero interest in what I do on here, though– so I highly dount he would take the time to scroll through my posting history.

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