Would you make out with another woman to turn your guy on?

posted 2 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Would you make out with a woman to turn your SO on?
    Sure, I ll try anything once. : (9 votes)
    8 %
    Depending on the situation and who the other woman is. : (19 votes)
    16 %
    No, what is this, college? : (91 votes)
    76 %
  • Post # 2
    Member
    4483 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    Nope, not really interested. I had a crush on a woman once and would have kissed her, but not for the entertainment of others.

    Post # 3
    Member
    537 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    I have before when I was younger, way before I met DH. It’s not something that I would do now. Then again, he has stated before that he thinks cheating is cheating, male or female, and he’s not interested in seeing me kiss anyone but him. I’m totally okay with that! Lol.

    Post # 4
    Member
    339 posts
    Helper bee

    No. If my SO is asked me to do it, I’d make him rethink his priorities.

    Edit: And I’d like to think he knows better.

    Post # 5
    Member
    373 posts
    Helper bee

    Absolutely not. I’m heterosexual, so I would pretty much only kiss another woman if it were a matter of life and death. I’d never do something I don’t want to do just to give other people sexual(!) entertainment. Of course, your friend probably wasn’t opposed to it, so it likely wasn’t a big deal for her.

    Post # 6
    Member
    218 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic

    No, I personally find it sexist and demeanin but that’s just my opinion.

    Post # 7
    Member
    559 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2014

    I would be offended. But I’d probably point to another guy and be like,”oh,what about him? I’d love to make out with him! Come on,come watch!” Lol 

    Post # 8
    Member
    904 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 1975

    sweetis:  I’m in the “What is this, College?” Category. Not in my late 20s as I’m getting married in 2 weeks. Nor would my husband-to-be egg that on or appreciate the act. Can’t be bothered with those antics.

    Post # 9
    Member
    8664 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Nope. I’m an adult and I don’t need to act like an experimenting teenager to turn my husband on.

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    Post # 10
    Member
    414 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    sweetis:  It’s completely sexist and demeaning. That’s not something that can be argued.

    Post # 11
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    2674 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    Ok, I voted “no, what is this college” but then remembered I did this years ago when a friend asked me because she wanted to tease her ex boyfriend who was watching us. But we faked kissing, he was too far away to really see. Juvenile, I know.

    Post # 12
    Member
    2455 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I said “no, what is this college” because I have done it in college. But I’m not an 18/19 year old drunk on boxed wine anymore, I’m a 25 year old about to get married. So I have done it, but wouldn’t now.

    I’ve also done purely for my own entertainment, not someone else’s.

    Post # 13
    Member
    368 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    Hmmm, it’s not something my FI would ask me to do…but there have definitely been times where we’ve been out dancing together and a good (girl) friend and I have tipsily kissed in front of him. He definitely didn’t mind 😀 

    Post # 14
    Member
    272 posts
    Helper bee

    No way.  If he asked me, then I’d ask him to kiss another man!

    Post # 15
    Member
    263 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    No, I wouldn’t make out with a woman for any reason. I have in the past and I felt cheap afterwards. Look at it this way, your man wouldn’t make out with another guy if you asked him to. I’m not interested in getting my fiance’s friends worked up, anyway. That’s not my job.

     

    I’ll be honest, I’m grossed out by women who engage in lesbian activity purely for the enjoyment of men. If you’re doing it because you want to that’s one thing, but if you’re not into it and you’re only doing it to get someone else aroused or for attention then I think it’s just weird and gross.

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