Post # 1
This is my second thread today ( I guess I am really bored lol)
My BFF told me that while in a party her DH asked her to kiss her friend and the guys watched and enjoyed . They were also kind of tipsy which helped and it was just the four of them in the room. Would you do something like that if your guy asked you to (or without him even asking)? I am not talking a full on threesome which is another topic, but just playful fun for his sake. Have you ever done it for a guy? Do you find it , hot, demeaning or you are just indifferent?
Post # 2
Nope, not really interested. I had a crush on a woman once and would have kissed her, but not for the entertainment of others.
Post # 3
I have before when I was younger, way before I met DH. It’s not something that I would do now. Then again, he has stated before that he thinks cheating is cheating, male or female, and he’s not interested in seeing me kiss anyone but him. I’m totally okay with that! Lol.
Post # 4
No. If my SO is asked me to do it, I’d make him rethink his priorities.
Edit: And I’d like to think he knows better.
Post # 5
Absolutely not. I’m heterosexual, so I would pretty much only kiss another woman if it were a matter of life and death. I’d never do something I don’t want to do just to give other people sexual(!) entertainment. Of course, your friend probably wasn’t opposed to it, so it likely wasn’t a big deal for her.
Post # 6
- Wedding: Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic
No, I personally find it sexist and demeanin but that’s just my opinion.
Post # 7
I would be offended. But I’d probably point to another guy and be like,”oh,what about him? I’d love to make out with him! Come on,come watch!” Lol
Post # 8
sweetis: I’m in the “What is this, College?” Category. Not in my late 20s as I’m getting married in 2 weeks. Nor would my husband-to-be egg that on or appreciate the act. Can’t be bothered with those antics.
Post # 9
Nope. I’m an adult and I don’t need to act like an experimenting teenager to turn my husband on.
Post # 10
sweetis: It’s completely sexist and demeaning. That’s not something that can be argued.
Post # 11
Ok, I voted “no, what is this college” but then remembered I did this years ago when a friend asked me because she wanted to tease her ex boyfriend who was watching us. But we faked kissing, he was too far away to really see. Juvenile, I know.
Post # 12
I said “no, what is this college” because I have done it in college. But I’m not an 18/19 year old drunk on boxed wine anymore, I’m a 25 year old about to get married. So I have done it, but wouldn’t now.
I’ve also done purely for my own entertainment, not someone else’s.
Post # 13
Hmmm, it’s not something my FI would ask me to do…but there have definitely been times where we’ve been out dancing together and a good (girl) friend and I have tipsily kissed in front of him. He definitely didn’t mind 😀
Post # 14
No way. If he asked me, then I’d ask him to kiss another man!
Post # 15
No, I wouldn’t make out with a woman for any reason. I have in the past and I felt cheap afterwards. Look at it this way, your man wouldn’t make out with another guy if you asked him to. I’m not interested in getting my fiance’s friends worked up, anyway. That’s not my job.
I’ll be honest, I’m grossed out by women who engage in lesbian activity purely for the enjoyment of men. If you’re doing it because you want to that’s one thing, but if you’re not into it and you’re only doing it to get someone else aroused or for attention then I think it’s just weird and gross.