Post # 1
DH loves long hair. I’ve been growing mine out because I wanted longer hair. However, today I saw a really cute shoulder length hair cut and was thinking about trying it out. I’m getting sick of taking care of long hair, but I do like the way it looks. I asked DH what he thought about me cutting it and he said he’d love me no matter what but I know his preference. So I mentioned how I keep my hair long because that is his preference but he does what ever he wants with his. So he asked if I wanted to make a deal, I continue to grow my hair out and he’ll cut his hair the way I prefer. It’s a very tempting deal as his hair is usually similar to a mad scientist. Every 6 months or so he’ll get a buzz cut, then let it grow crazy and repeat. So, I decided to accept. My question is, would you make this deal with your significant other?
Obviously, this deal isn’t binding. If either of us decides we want to change our minds, we wont hold it against each other.
He and I looked through photos tonight and picked out this one for him to try:
Post # 3
I voted no, but only because I keep my hair long because I like it. I see short cuts but I just don’t have the nerve to do it. My DH has hair like a brillow pad, so I don’t think it would lend itself to any style other than how he currently wears it…lol.
Post # 4
I would! It’s just hair, and I like doing things like that for him. It’s a confidence booster too.
Post # 5
@ImaStarr: Do it!! Like @mepayne said, it’s just hair. And it would be fun to get your FI to try a new hairstyle that you think will make him even more attractive to you.
I beg my DH to wear cologne because I find it so sexy, but he refuses. Maybe I’ll try a deal like yours and see what happens…
Post # 6
I would do it!! Fun bargain!
Post # 7
Sure, within reason. I wouldn’t get a hair cut I really didn’t like for DH, but it sounds like you don’t mind wearing it long.
Post # 8
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I mean I wouldn’t mind but there would be no point in making the deal since I’m slowly growing my hair out & I don’t care about his hair :p
Post # 9
@ImaStarr: I like this idea! As long as it’s done in good humor, and it sounds like this is the case. Sweet inspiration pic, very handsome, 🙂 Oooh especially if I could choose facial hair! DH looks sooo good with whiskers.
I wouldn’t do anything with my hair that I really hated of course.
Post # 10
I say deal, it’s hair. It will grow back…
Post # 11
A lot of people are going to comment based on what THEY want and not on your actual situation but I say DEAL!!
Post # 12
I have long hair. As of late i REALLY want to cut my hair short. FI also loves long hair and my hair has been long our entire relationship. After our wedding I am cutting my hair shorter than shoulder length. I think its a good time to start over with a new do! Im so excited. Even though my SO loves long hair he will love me either way. He has only seen pictures of me when i was younger with short hair so this will be new and i am so excited!