Would you say anything?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
Member
891 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

CherryA:  i probably wouldn’t say anything except that you enjoyed being part of her special day. i think you did the best thing, which was to post it here and let other bees see it as a sort of cautionary tale. someone else might be able to plan better from your post, so it’s a good thing, and the bride never has to know. it wouldn’t change anything if she knew so i wouldn’t worry about it. 🙂

Post # 3
Member
999 posts
Busy bee

 

CherryA:  That sounds awful and I’m sorry you missed out on important parts of your friends wedding, but saying anything after the fact will only make her feel bad. No good can come of it.

Post # 4
Member
1001 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would not say anything. There is nothing she can do to go back and change it, and I’m sure her intention was not to make some guests feel left out of the festivities. Just say it was lovely and move on. No sense in making her feel bad unnecessarily. 

Post # 5
Member
2709 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

CherryA:  I wouldn’t say anything. Just tell her you were happy to be there on her special day. There’s no point on bringing up anything now, it’s over and it’ll only hurt her feelings.

Post # 6
Member
2518 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

CherryA:  Ya, that sucks! I wouldnt say anything tough, unless she asks about it directly. Really, telling her now isn’t going to do any good and would just make her feel horrible. I doubt it was her intention to exclude ppl like that, but crazy things happen on your wedding day- some of which you have zero control or knowledge of until afterwards. 

Post # 7
Member
1758 posts
Buzzing bee

Can’t be fixed so I would just think of something good about it and say that 🙂 

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