(Closed) Would you take this as a compliment or an insult?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
9618 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

insult, you were called a stripper! but it depends on how you feel about it. you weren’t dressed provocatively but you were still called a stripper, that’s not a good thing

Post # 4
7779 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

The person who commented is a douche, and your Fiance handled it very well. Don’t let ignorant people bother you. If you love the way you look and like the way you dress, then continue to do it. You can’t be anyone but yourself.

Post # 5
879 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I would be insulted as well

Post # 6
1735 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

strippers can be pretty damn hot who ever posted may just be a bit jealous I wouldn’t take it to heart.

Post # 7
627 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

It seems kind of insulting to me, but you don’t seem that upset so i guess it’s not a big deal? Your Fiance did handle it quite well… what a rude thing for someone to say!!

Post # 8
4755 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’m verrrrry curious about the dress in question! Would you post a pic?

By the way your question is loaded: are you insulted your bf essentially agreed to the stipper comment or are you insulted at the comment itself?

Post # 9
10288 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Insult. Generally when women are compared to strippers, it’s meant in a negative way.

Post # 12
135 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

If you’re not offended, don’t get yourself worked up. Just let it roll off you. That being said, yeah, I’d be upset. I always say if you got it, flaunt it whether you’re a size 2 or 22. Rock on; don’t change your fashion style..that’s part of who you are!

Post # 13
5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

I would be embarrassed if I was called out as a stripper when I was trying to look classy and appropriate for a wedding. 

I have no problems with strippers but if the image I give people is one then yes I would check my wardrobe, especially if people are commenting “all the time” (your words) about how sexy i dress.  its very much ok to dress sexy but i think there is a time and place

of course not seeing you or the outfit, the other guy could be talking out of his butt and is a douche

Post # 14
4512 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Compliment. I’d take it to mean the guy thinks you’re hot. (One of my many little rules of thumb: when in doubt, take any questionable remark as a compliment.)

And yeah, I want to see this pic! 

Post # 15
707 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I probably would have been offended unless it was one of our friends or someone that I knew well enough to know they were just joking. And I don’t get offended very easily. I’m glad that he apologized, but it was pretty rude of him to say considering it sounds like you don’t know him. When will people learn you don’t write stuff like that on Facebook?!

Post # 16
1160 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012


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