(Closed) Would you tell your best friend/bridesmaid that….

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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585 posts
Busy bee

I’d find a way to gently talk to her and open her eyes to the situation. Tell her everything you just told us here. She is obviously not focused on having a quality relationship, and maybe has trouble with self-esteem and/or actually looking at her future. This could be seriously detrimental to her as time goes on, and would be horrible for a child(ren). Yes, she is a grown woman, but out of love for her I think you should try to talk to her about what a healthy relaitonship looks like because she seems clueless.

Post # 4
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542 posts
Busy bee

Ask her what kind of guy she aspired to marry when she was younger. Ask her what tv or movie character she would marry in a fictional world. Ask some hypothetical questions. It will make her think more about her future life  as Mrs. Loser, and this way you don’t seem like you’re picking on her or belittling her.

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Yes. She’s your BFF. You should be able to tell her honestly that her BF is a loser, tactfully of course since she obviously loves him, but also be honest about it. She’ll thank you later

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