Post # 1
The other day my cousin and his fiance dropped by for a barbeque. There were a couple of other people there including my FI friend. I kept noticing his fiance checking out my FI friend but I kind of just blew it off. Well his friend went upstairs in the kitchen and a couple of minutes later my cousin fiance followed. I went upstairs after her to check on the kids outside and I walked in on her trying to hook up with my FI friend! I was so put off and didn’t know what to do. I couldnt’t believe she would have the audacity to do something like that. All the while my cousin’s mother (my aunt) is in the living room with my mom!!! The next day I asked my FI to talk to his friend and just as I had known.. she was trying to get his number. He also said she told him she wasn’t seeing anyone and that my cousin was nobody! I don’t know what to do. Should I tell him about it. My FI said I should just stay out of it!
Post # 3
I would probably tell the aunt/someone else so the information gets to him. Or just flat out tell him if you’re close with your cousin.
Post # 4
i would say something… if you don’t then your only setting him up to pay for a wedding and a divorce, because he will eventually find out one day, and when he does what is going to happen. Will he walk into her and someone else doing something in his house, if they have kids, (now or in the future) all he will do is wonder if they’re his, and if they aren’t he might not give the child all the love and care that it deserves, and thats not the kids fault.
you need to say something and make sure he leaves her, so he can start his journey to find the girl that will be there for him and never want to do anything to hurt him.
your only helping him in the long run, and if you don’t tell him and they do eventually get devorced, you will feel bad knowning that if you had just said something before they had gotten married you could have saved your cousin from all the hearted will will go through.
My fiance said that if it were him he would be upset at first, but would be very happy with you that you told him, and he would be thankful to you for looking out for him.
Post # 5
It depends on if your close to the cousin, and how you think he’d react to the information. If I were you I’d find a way to, it doesn’t seem like she deserves your cousin.
Post # 6
I would say something. I would want someone to tell me!
Post # 7
I would give the facts and tell him to ask her about it.
Post # 8
- Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo
Gross! I would tell him, especially if you’re close to your cousin, but be sure you have your facts straight and any possible proof. People generally react to this information with disbelief or offense.
Post # 9
I’d probably say something, especially if you are close to your cousin. You saw it with your own eyes so it isn’t just a rumor or anything.
Post # 10
Say something. You have hard evidence that she is a bit of a tramp. So fess up the information.
Post # 12
Say something most def. I mean like other people have said on this thread better he know now then after he has paid for a wedding and divorce soon after. As hard as it is your saving him alot of heart ache.
Post # 14
I would probably say something.
Post # 15
If it were one of my cousins (which I’m VERY close to) I would have said something then and there, like an adult no big scene…I would have called my cousin in to witness the whole thing. That’s just me, when it comes to fooling around some ppl don’t believe hear say, they have to see it for themselves. Now that it’s already been a couple days I would be a little more hesitant simply because now it’s your word against hers…you could invite them both over and talk to them together…again only if ya’ll are close. If not then let him see it for himself.
Post # 16
I would say something, it’s family. What a skank.