Weddingbee boards

I would still continue TTC. Anything could come up at any time; at the moment there might not be any weddings next October/November, but that could change. I personally would never put my life or plans on hold for something like a wedding; there is no guarantee you'll fall pregnant in the next 2 months anyway (for most couples it takes 6 months plus), but if you do, that's a bridge you can cross when you come to it.

I'd only TTA if I was actually going to be a bridesmaid (or have some other important job like a reader or something). Other than that, I'd keep trying!

I would not stop TTC just because there is an event coming up. The odds of you becoming pregnant, and having a baby within those few weeks are not super high so I would say just keep trying! That's my personal opinion though, I would never put something I want so badly on hold because of someones wedding. There will always be something that comes up but the joy of having a baby tops it all! good luck to you :)

@mrs.monkey: How long have you been trying? Hubby and I started out like you are and tried to plan trying around what worked best for my work schedule in terms of a due date at first. We put off trying for several months, tooks breaks etc. Let me tell you how that worked out ... we didn't get pregnant right away, or soon after, then we stopped thinking about it and the longer we hoped for a baby the less we cared when it came. If you take a month off every time something comes up before you know it you'll be over a year into TTC and suddenly frustrated and wondering if something is wrong with you. I wouldn't do it - babies are miracles and you can't time or schedule them, just be grateful when they come!

In the end we are finally pregnant and the timing couldn't be worse, but we've now waited so long for this and at times doubted if it was even going to happen, we are just incapable of being anything but super happy and excited. We'll deal with the rest as it comes!