(Closed) Would your SO be annoyed if…..

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
62 posts
Worker bee

Unless its some emergency, I try not to wake him up.. I know it would get him really angry because I know he won’t be able to fall back to sleep. I usually see when it’s right time (good time) to talk about certain things.. I don’t start any negative talks in the mornig.. Who would want to start the morning in bad mood.. 

Post # 4
1152 posts
Bumble bee

@Pamelor55:  Oh, totally, unless it was like a medical emergency. And I’d probably be even more annoyed – I cherish my sleep!

Post # 5
8473 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

My husband has told me to wake him up for absolutely anything. He knows I’m the type to bottle things up inside and not open up; so no matter what, he will always be there to listen… Whether its 9pm, 4am, or whenever. I’m very lucky. 

Post # 6
1798 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I’d be pissed if someone woke me up just to chat. Unless he’s totally okay with being woken up, you should really wait until a time when you’re both already up.

Post # 7
9075 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

I just asked my husband and he goes, “I’d be pretty livid if you woke me up just to chat about christmas.”

Basically, if the house isn’t on fire, we don’t disturb anyone’s sleep.

I know I’d be absolutely infuriated if he woke me up to talk about something that could wait til morning.

Post # 8
1079 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

My Fiance would not be happy if I did that.  I wouldn’t be happy about it either.  We could talk about that in the morning. 


Post # 9
1832 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

I try not to wake my SO up for anything but sex or an emergency, its rude to wake someone up when they are sleeping, even your SO or Darling Husband just to chat.

Post # 10
2831 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Ya he’d probs be pretty irritated if I did that to him.

Post # 11
807 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

If it was just to chat, yeah he’d be annoyed (and so would I for that matter!) If it was important I know he would listen without complaining, but otherwise why not have the conversation in the morning when you get up?

Post # 12
3825 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@Pamelor55:  No. My SO will sit up and talk to me about anything that’s bothering me. But if he sees it’s not life or death or really causing me emotional turmoil, there are no promises that he may not drift off to sleep while I’m talking. lol

Now, I’ve dated people who would DEFINITELY have a big problem with it. It just depends on the man.

Post # 13
4464 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I would never do that. It comes across as inconsiderate, or me putting my own needs above my partner’s. If I want to talk to someone and they are indisposed – on the phone, sleeping, driving and can’t answer the phone, etc. – then I just have to suck it up and wait since life doesn’t always give instant gratification. 

Post # 14
508 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Yes, he would be annoyed.  And he would promptly tell me that talking about “mundane crap like that” could wait until the morning.

Post # 15
3583 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Unless it was some life philosophy discussion or I am having an anxiety attack, yes he would be annoyed. As would I.

Post # 16
11273 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

so, i asked my dh if he would be upset and he said no, not really.  he said that it’s not really something to get angry or upset over.

keep in mind, he seldom gets angry or upset.

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