(Closed) Wouldyou be offended if one of the girls wanted to “dress you down” …

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Sugar bee

I am confused. So they want you to dress not as nicely? Or they want you to tone down the hairstyle for the wedding? Sorry not trying to poke fun. Your language is different than I am used to.

Post # 4
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I don’t think its a knock on your personal style, I think they just want to maybe shake things up a bit.  I think it might be fun for you.  

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Wait, whoa!  “inflatable random alien style outfit”?? Are they serious or are they just being cheeky?  

Post # 7
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Sugar bee

Uhhhh no. Even if you aren’t wearing the same outfit, which is perfectly okay, it is not nice for them to tell you that you have to look not as good as them. Brides who purposely dress their bridal party in hideous outfits to make themselves look good just make themselves look bad. When one has a nicely dressed and HAPPY bridal party, it says a lot of good things about the bride.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Is the hen a bachlorette party? A night of fun before you get married?

If so, I think they are just trying to push you out of your comfort zone and get you to try something silly and new. Perhaps, they see you as serious and want you to have some fun before you get married?

Maybe you could wear some of the silly stuff. If it makes you uncomfortable, don’t do it.

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