- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
I just made a small group message to four friends on Facebook with the link to some of our pro pics, because the four of them were in a funny pic together.
The last girl on the list is named Sarah…I wrote:
I already sent this to Erica, but OMG there is the best pic of you guys! So great to see you all at the wedding. A portion of our pics are up there is one AWESOME one of Erica, Mary, Margot and Sarah I love it. Here is the link, it’s pic # DSC_0080 on page 6.
then gave the link/password.
Love you all! Would love to get together again ASAP!
Quickly added all four girls (well, women–we are all early 40s). Got back a response from the only other friend Sarah I have…not realizing I added her instead of the Sarah in the pic. Unfortunately the Sarah I added was not invited to our wedding 🙁
She is an old friend of Darling Husband from HS, I met her last year at their 25th reunion but they aren’t close (hadn’t seen each other since HS and infrequently interact on FB, actually I interact with her more than he does) so although we thought about inviting her, we never socialize with them outside of that one reunion and we just couldn’t invite everyone we know so we didn’t.
“Wonderful photos… Love the outfit choices for the bridal party. The blue is so nice. I feel like I was there now that I’ve seen all of these. You guys had the perfect day!”
I then sent another msg to her separately saying, “whoops sorry about that, the message was intended for my friend Sarah R! Hopefully we can all get together soon–[then I asked about a recent surgery she had]. That’s some major surgery, I hope you are well. Maybe you and hubby can come out this way, we can take a ride on our boat? Let me know!”
I feel bad, and stupid. Do you think I overdid the apology, or should say something else? UGH I feel terrible. Plus it’s my time of the month so I guess I feel worse than I would usually. I NEVER do stuff like that!