Post # 1
I’ve been gone for a while(not that I posted much on here anyway…lol) and without going into all the gory details…I am no longer getting married..yup, it’s over.This has really taken a toll on me. I get that rejection is a part of life but it still ABSOLUTLEY SUCKS! My self esteem has taken a MAJOR HIT. I will say that I think my emotions are every where right about now. I really don’t know whether I want to ball my eyes out, scream, punch a wall(not really, I am so not going to harm myself over a man…not worth it…lol!) or just do nothing. I know that may sound strange to some, but that’s really the best way I can explain how I am feeling right now. So now this little lady has to begin to rebuild and focus on herself(probably easier said than done). I’ve decided to make some career changes so hopefully, something opens up for me soon. So, while I won’t be doing a wedding recap or posting about anything wedding related anytime soon, I am looking forward to seeing the recaps of the Bees who are soon to take that walk down the aisle. Oh and if you have read this and you want to send me a hug( I will take all the virtual hugs I can get…lol) or give me some advice on how to move forward, I would appreciate it.
Post # 2
So sorry to hear that! Sending internet hugs your way! Try to keep busy and remember that you are better off where you are at now, even if it doesn’t feel that way. Always focus on the good!
Post # 3
Big Hug coming your way!!!
Post # 4
You’ll come through this better than ever. It’ll be ok.
I dunno if you want to, but on the old Weddingbee, there was a way to request a username change. Maybe you could look into that and reinvent yourself.
Post # 5
So sorry. Please take good care of yourself right now. You need it!
Post # 6
- Wedding: July 2014 - Prague
Big virtual hugs! I’m sorry you’re going through this. Do take care of yourself and stay busy.
I think it’s totally normal to be feeling the array of emotions you’re going through right now. It’s part of the process. IF you have any creative hobbies, now is a good time to really endulge in them. They can be amazing therapy!
Again, big hugs!
Post # 7
Soon2BeeFirstLadyJee: Aw. I am so sorry. I know how it feels. It happened to me. But it will be ok! Just think that it is better it ended now instead of 20 years from now when children are involved and you have to get a nasty long expensive divorce. I know I don’t know you personally but I am willing to bet you are a strong brave woman and you will be ok. Just hang in there!
Post # 8
Sending BIGGG Hugs your way! You will be fine…stay encouraged and keep your head up! I def agree with the point that it is better it has happened now instead of having children and many years invested although I know it is still hard. Be strong, go out with your girl and enjoy life XO
Post # 9
Im so sorry you are going through this,the end of a relationship sure does suck.
First off take good care of yourself,shower even when you dont wanna,eat even if you dont feel hungry,paint your nails,do your hair pretty and give yourself a slick of lip gloss even if you dont usually wear it! The whole ‘look good feel good’ thing definitely helped me
Surround yourself with your friends,family and people that love you but also make time for you to ponder. while most people do whatever they can to not think about things,i found that by trying to block it all out made me think about even more!So i literally set myself time periods where i was ‘allowed’ to think,process,grieve etc. If my mind wondered during the day i would check the time and tell myself ‘not yet girl’!
You are on a brand new path now,your new journey on your next chapter of life.A new career,new challenges,a brand new and even more fabulous you!
Good luck hunny,massive internet hugs to you!
Post # 10
Wishing you all the best, so sorry you’re going through this. *HUGS*
Post # 11
Sending multiple hugs your way. I don’t know what it is like to call off an engagement but the first advice i can give you is if you believe in God (no matter what religion you are), this is the time to spiritually connect. There is no solace elsewhere. I cannot tell you how much my faith has helped me go through the toughest times. It has been a constant source of happiness and joy for me.
Secondly, it is going to be hard and very hard not to take him back. The only way you can truly move on is to occupy your time with a lot of other activities. I found that zumba makes me happy and tired at the same time.
Please if you need any support at all, feel free to reach out here. I am sure there will always be people to make you feel comforted.
Post # 12
*hug* *hug* *hug* *hug* *hug* *hug* *hug* *hug* *hug*. So sorry!!
Post # 13
((HUGS)) I am so sorry you’re going through this!
Post # 14
I can’t offer any words of wisdom, so I just wanted to say ::HUGS:: So sorry you are going through this!
Post # 15
Hugs! Keep your chin up. Even in the worse situations just remember everythign happens for a reason. THis ended so something better for you can come along.