Post # 1
So she brings her husband & son in our office to meet everyone. (This co-worker sits right behind me).
Well, she introduces them to the girl that sits diagonally from me. (she had to walk right PAST me to get to her, BTW)
THEN, she takes them RIGHT PAST my desk AGAIN, and starts going down the cubicle line, introducing them to EVERYONE but me.
I had a feeling she didn’t TRULY like me, just one of those FAKE nice-to-your-face type people.
Now I know for sure.
Post # 3
Welp, guess you can be not-nice to her from now on 🙂
I hate fake people..I’d just ignore her as much as I can from now on if it’s not work related. Or, if you want…you can kill her with kindness! That’s my fav!
Post # 4
Ah that is note nice at all!
With me (also being a cube dweller) I always find it so strange when the people that never talk to you normally bring in their families and talk to you like you are best friends.
But that is obvious that she was avoiding you… how imature.
Post # 5
Ew. That’s so obnoxious. At least you don’t have to be fake nice to her anymore. that ship has pretty much sailed with the snub. Whatever, though. Do you really want to make fake small talk with people you couldn’t care less about? I always hate when people I don’t like introduce me to their kids and stuff. You may have dodged a bullet there.
Post # 6
Ignore her! Who wants to meet her husband and snotty son anyways? lol. I’d be like, “oh um…hi?” with a look on your face like “i have better things to do than meet you” =]
Post # 7
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Yucky yucky. Try to ignore it…I know that it is hard to do, but it isn’t worth it to get fed up about work related things sometimes. People are petty and awful at times…gotta be above it. Yuck though…super yuck.
Post # 8
The kicker will be when they get home and their son asks… “Who was that lady next to your cubical, mommy? I didn’t have the chance to meet her.” I see what that child is learning.
Post # 9
Ignore her til she fades away!
Post # 10
People are awful like that. I used to work in cubicals and the two ladies across from me would call each other on the phone and whisper about lunch plans then get up and leave and go to lunch without inviting me. Funny when I became their boss how I then became their bestfriends! LOL
Post # 11
Here’s the thing. I seriously TRY as hard as I can to be nice to people. And when they act like that, it is so upsetting…
BTW, she finally intro’d me to them about 15 minutes later (they were standing outside the office door when i walked out for lunch) and she played it off like “OMG I forgot to introduce you! I thought you were on the phone!”
I never know what to think about some people.
Post # 12
I wouldn’t even acknowlege her any more! But that’s just me:)
Post # 14
Lol same thing used to happen at my former jobs. I found it very awful. However it was hilarious when the other outsider brought his girlfriend and I gave her a big hug because I knew so much about her. Their mouths hit the floor (bee-otch-es)
Post # 16
I agree with crebre, be sweeter than pie to her! Act as though it didn’t happen and should it happen again walk up and introduce yourself and give them a kiss (cheek to cheek like we hispanics do) or shake their hands. That will teach her a lesson. And the fact that you are being so sweet to her will eat her up inside.
Don’t let people like that get on your nerves. They know it does and they thrive on it!