- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2011
So WTF just got off the phone with my FI and he asked me if my little sisters would be watching my big sister’s kids when we go out that day before the wedding. I said maybe why? He said, I wanted to ask if they would be able to watch some of the other peoples, kids that are coming that want to go out. I said well I will have to ask them and she how many kids and how old cause I don’t know how many they can handle. He said well one of the kids are 2 years old I said whoa! 2 is a rough age for 15 year and 13 year old to handle she is used to watching small babies and 4 years old + 2 is a wild age and not all babies are easy to watch at that age and our house isn’t exactly kid friendly.
And he just flipped out saying that I am always negative and he just want everyone to be able to have a good time. I said great but I haven’t said anything that is untrue. I don’t know if they will want to watch kids it’s their vacation too and especially kids that don’t know them it may be difficult and I don’t know that I want a bunch of kids at my house when I am not there, overall it’s not your job to find everyone a babysitter.
Am I wrong he went on and on about how I am always looking at the cons and making things seem worse than they are?
Whatever too much to worry about to try to find people babysitters. Maybe I am bias because A.) I don’t have kids he does so maybe he is has more empathy and B.) I don’t want anything broken or damage in my house and I care more about the presentation of our house than he does, C.) I am planning the entire wedding alone so I feel like why take on another task D.) I would prefer if no one brought kids period being that they aren’t invited to the wedding and people are clearly still bring them why would I make that more convenient? E.) All my friends that have kids have made arrangements so why are his friends having such a hard time?
He jus literally started yelling and being dramtica. weird!