(Closed) Writing Bachelorette/Wedding Thank-Yous Simultaneously

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I think if the girl is a close friend (like a very best friend) it is just fine to combine notes. I wouldn’t think a thing of it. But if the girl is a more casual aquaintance (spelling? lol) then I would send 2 notes, just to be safe. I think thank you notes are so important, and I would cover all my bases with friends you may not be as close with.

Post # 4
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1357 posts
Bumble bee

I have no idea. I”m dealing with the same thing! I think people love being thanked, and the more thank yous the better. SPeaking of that, I should start working on those. 🙂

Post # 5
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883 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

Two years ago I would have said MULTITASK! But I got 3 separate thank yous from a friend because of her bach party, wedding gift, and a full separate thank you note because I ended up being her defacto day of coordinator.  I wouldn’t have been insulted for the note to multitask, but the separate ones took thought and time and I felt like she really did appreciate it all. I want my friends and family to feel like that.

Post # 7
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1980 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I may be off base on this one, but I just think 3 thank you notes is overkill for one of your close friends. For an aunt or older relative though, I’d definitely do seperate ones.

Post # 8
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

For my combined shower/bachelorette party, it was only like 8 of my close girl friends, so I only wrote one card, but I wrote plenty about each gift!

For older guests I would do separate ones. They would probably appreciate it more. Use separate cards, too, like a fun printed one for your bach and a pretty one for your shower? I had some made up on Vistaprint that said “soon to be Mrs. S” that were good for all the shower/bachelorette parties I needed to write ty’s for

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