Post # 1
I started this last week and i just finished… ha ha i’m at work *bored*
I read it to myself and i got all teary eyed…. omg how am i going to be when i read it outloud to him?!?!?!
Also… i haven’t mentioned to him that i’ve written my own vows LOL I mean i’m sure it’ll come up in conversation when we speak to the celebrant next but should i let him know that i’ve written my own?
Post # 3
were you guys planning on writing your own? I would just tell him. 🙂
Post # 4
nope we’re never talked about it… and i’ve never actually thought about it until last week and i just started writting
Post # 5
YOu really need to tell him! He might be uncomfortable writing his own vows and you don’t want to put him on the spot in front of your officiant.
Post # 6
Yeah, this is definitely not something to surprise him with. I would ask him what he thinks of writing your own vows and see what he says. Hopefully he’ll be on board. If he absolutely hates the idea, you might have to stick with the traditional vows.
Post # 7
Thanks for the advice 🙂
Yeah i guess it wouldn’t be a good idea to make him have to make up his mind with the celebrant… i don’t want to make him feel that he has too.
I will talk to him tonight 😀