(Closed) WWYD? AKA: Probably inappropriate behaviour?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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4525 posts
Honey bee

He should know that what she did was inappropriate. He’s a grown man. I think you handled it fine. Should something like that happen again, she needs a firm talking to from him. Hopefully her husband said something to her when they got home. 

Post # 4
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Busy bee

That made me gag a little- who does that?? I think you handled it well and letting it go is for the best. If I were her husband I would be furious! There is a female friend of SO’s who acts a little like this to him and it drives me crazy. Luckily for both of us we have partners that wouldn’t ever go there! 

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@CherryWaves:  I think you handled it perfectly!  When I first started dating FI, he had an ex who presented herself as his “best friend”.  She was also in a LTR but would pull this type of stuff all of the time.  I would laugh it off and tell myself that she was just insecure.  Anyway, it drove me crazy on the inside but I wouldn’t say anything and in turn, this drove her crazy and her stunts started happening more often to the point where other people started to take notice.  She ended up looking like the ass in the situation and everybody praised & respected me even more for not letting it get to me.  Even if she tries to pull more stuff like this in the future, I would just let it roll off your back and remind yourself that you and DH have a solid relationship.  That old saying is true; if you give them enough rope, they’ll hang themselves.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

@CherryWaves:  Don’t worry, you handled it appropriately.  It was good to see that S’s hubby snapped to it when he noticed and everyone else thought it was odd behaviour of her.  If something like this happens again, I know you will handle business if need be!

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

I think you both handled it well- that kind of girl probably would have made a huge deal about it for the rest of the trip had you said anything and it would have gotten really awkward. I think that your DH handled it fine too- it doesn’t sound like it’s going to happen again since you don’t really hang out with them that much. I bet her DH had a huge fight with her later on!

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

double post

Post # 10
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5983 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

I’d laugh at her and feel paralysing pity for her at the same time…if she’s so besotted with a completely unavailable man that the only satisfaction she can garner is a few moments of totally bizarre head on shoulder action in a car full of people, including his wife, her life sucks far worse than you could ever aspire to inflict on her.  Next time you see her, throw your head on his shoulder and make a big scene, she’ll die of embarrassment!

Post # 12
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

DH should have pushed her off. In his defence, he probably wasn’t expecting this to happen. I would advise a talk to DH, telling him that in future you expect her to nip anything like that in the bud (i.e. by pushing her off).

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@Nona99:  LOL

I’m picturing something like the Harry Met Sally orgasm scene, except with head on shoulder action. 

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

If a woman did that to my DH and he didn’t push her off, I’d have reached over and shoved her toward her side of the car.  She can lean on the damn window.

Or even better, switched places with him so I was between them.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee

@CherryWaves:  It depends on which Soladylike showed up for the car ride. There is a 50/50 chance that I would have looked at her husband and gave him the eye to say something to his wife or I could be a little mean and tell her to get the fuck off my husband. I really don’t play games with women and my SO. Nor do I flaunt in front of my SO’s friends. Its rude and asking for trouble either way.

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