WWYD- newly estranged (?) aunt (long)

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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1168 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@StL.Ashley:  Just leave her a message on her phone or text- that you have her invitation waiting for her. It is all you can do. If she doesnt RSVP, Id assume she isnt coming. You do have time though, hopefully shell respond to you soon. 

Post # 4
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2419 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

This is a tough one, but I don’t see how you would be able to send an invite if no one has an address. Just keep trying and if she comes back to you about anything I would just say that you tried to contact her and she didn’t return your calls.

Post # 5
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1590 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I’m so sorry. This is definitely tough. If you’re sure you have the right number, just leave a message saying that you’d like to send her an invitation and you’d like her address. When invitation time comes around, I’d also leave a message inviting her to the wedding. That’s pretty much all you can do. 

Post # 6
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3598 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Is there any chance of the other aunts ganging up on her and causing a scene at the wedding?  

Post # 7
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2179 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2024

I would leave a message on her phone saying you’d like to know where to send her invitation and you need the address by X date. If she doesn’t get back to you then I wouldn’t worry about it because she clearly doesn’t want to attend.

Post # 8
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2892 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@StL.Ashley:  Leave her a message where she can get it. She’ll let you know where to send it, or she can just RSVP directly to you with no need to send if she doesn’t have a stable address. 

Just keep telling yourself that this is a solveable problem!

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