X-mas cards?

posted 3 years ago in Holidays
  • poll: When is it acceptable/not weird to send out X-mas cards as a couple?
    Anytime - doesn't matter if you've been together 10 days or 10 years : (2 votes)
    9 %
    When living together (not engaged) : (9 votes)
    39 %
    When engaged and NOT living together : (2 votes)
    9 %
    When engaged AND living together : (3 votes)
    13 %
    Only when you are married : (4 votes)
    17 %
    9 %
    Other (explain in comments) : (0 votes)
    After X years of dating (please comment how many years) : (1 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 3
    1739 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I think you should send out Christmas cards! I was with my boyfriend for 3 years and sent out cards, then 2 years later we got engaged, I still send out cards – we have been together 8 years now – still not married, but we are in eachothers lives every single day. It’s a medical insurance issue why we are not married – I say send out the cards!! Kiss


    Post # 4
    6951 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2015

    @MissBridge:  We’re living together but not engaged and will be sending out Xmas cards together this year for the first time. (To be fair, last year at Christmas we’d only been together a few months.) I think it’s fine to send them together if you live together or are engaged. 

    ETA: I’m not sure how my super-Christian cousins are going to feel about getting a Christmas card signed by a couple “living in sin”, but I don’t really care 😛

    Post # 5
    4468 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    @MissBridge:  I guess it depends- every relationship is so different. Some people get married or start living together/get engaged after 1 month, so I think in that case they should sent out cards together! I definitely think you and your SO should!! We have been together 4 years, married last year but don’t send out Christmas cards- we are too busy with our toddler and second baby on the way!

    Post # 6
    373 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @MissBridge:  this is our first year sending joint cards, but we were married in August. 

    Post # 7
    655 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @MissBridge:  We sent them out when we started living together.

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