- 5 years ago
- Wedding: November 2012
So if you asked me what my biggest worry about the wedding day is, I’d say it was getting sick. Me getting sick, Fi getting sick and actually anyone in our immediate family getting poorly. This is probably the only thing in the whole wedding I’m anal about.
I don’t mind if the flowers wilt, or if the cake gets knocked over or if the food doesn’t turn up- hell we’ll order pizza and I can £4k back and spend it on a brilliant honeymoon to recover from the stress!
But!! The thought of getting sick really really freaks me out. I’ve said it before to people in RL and now with 10 days to go I’m pulling out all the stops to ensure that doesn’t happen to me or fiance. Washing my hands alot, eating well, drinking lots of water, taking vitamins, exercising etc etc.
Then during a conversation between my Maid/Matron of Honor and other bridesmaids she mentions she’s feeling poorly and think she might be coming down with something… I said it was probably best you guys don’t tell me anything that could go wrong in the next week either wedding/non wedding related and then they make jokes about it being scene out of the film Bridesmaids and other quips about something going wrong and when I said I it wasn’t that funny and I being serious they both seemed to react like I was overreacting.
From their angle it must seem like I’m being a bit brizella about this but I’m not sleeping with a million things running through my head but them saying that really does make me feel edgy! Especially since Maid/Matron of Honor is currently living with me! I know I get one day and I know life goes on around me for others and I’m not saying “Don’t get ill or else!” I really just want them to take me seriously when I say –
Please don’t joke about getting ill or tell me anything that might worry me between now and the wedding unless I really have to know. It’ll make me feel better.
Ugh. This is a vent. No need to reply!