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posted 3 months ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Yellow or Grey?
    Yellow! : (42 votes)
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    garden_bride    August 2012  

    Hey Bees!

    So I am having a yellow and grey summer garden themed wedding. (Ignore date next to my name.)

    1. The groomsmen will be in grey suits trimmed in black (think lamar odom's wedding suit)2. FI will be in black tuxedo with bow tie

    I fell in love with a grey dress but since it is a summer wedding, I am slowly liking yellow more. We are getting the dresses made. What do you guys think will look better? What dress do you like more?

    Yellow or Grey BM dresses... :  wedding LoveeYellow or Grey BM dresses... :  wedding Selena Gomez

     
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    BerryBerry    December 20, 2012   Australia

    EDIT: Ok, cool, I see the poll now!

    I like the idea of yellow for a summer wedding as I think the grey will be a bit too heavy. But I like grey dresses more. Sorry, I'm no use!!

    I would have grey dresses with bright shoes, necklaces and flowers. Best of both worlds?

    Also depends on your maids. Yellow can be a difficult colour for some girls to pull off.

     
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    HappierKate    September 29, 2012  

    You could do your MOH in one color and the other girls in the other, and maybe have sashes of the opposite color or something?

    I prefer the yellow one though! 

     
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    love108    September 2014  

    Can you do half and half? I love them together!

     
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    julies1949      

    Yellow is a very hard color for many women to wear.

     
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    itshouldsnow    June 2012  

    I think either would work! I love both of your inspiration pics.

     

     
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    taylor.ashleys    August 6, 2011   Alabama

    Those were the colors I used too! I did my MOH in yellow and the others in gray. I used a darker yellow, but here's a pic of our wedding party so you can see

    Yellow or Grey BM dresses... :  wedding 262985 10150755690825637 704725636 20238867 2846899 N

     
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    Vintage Princess    May 22, 2014  

    I love them both!!  I say yellow looks best on tanned skin. 

     
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    BerryBerry    December 20, 2012   Australia

    @taylor.ashleys:  

    Do the bridesmaids dresses look purple to anyone else?

    LOVE the colours by the way. Yellow and grey are lovely together!

     
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    crayfish    September 11, 2010   Berkeley, CA

    Gray is a neutral, much like a tan, white, or dark blue/black! I think it's totally fine for summer - I wear gray all the time in summer!

     
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    kerensa    May 20, 2013   Ohio

    I love the color yellow, but I think it may be a hard color for people to wear. It makes some people look sickly. It may depend on your bridesmaids' skin tones as to which colors will look best.

     
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    kala_way    May 28, 2011   Manhattan Beach, CA

    I think gray is easier to wear and more likely to be worn again.

    It's also more classic, and less likely to feel dated in a few years.

    My vote is gray. That dress is beautiful!

     
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    Brielle    May 22, 2009  

    Yellow is one of my favorite colors, but I love the gray/silver dress you posted as an example (I know that's not actually a contender for your bridesmaids' dress, but I really like it.)  What is stopping me from saying gray is that you plan to have the groomsmen in gray. I am not a fan of a mostly gray wedding-color palette, as I don't think it will have enough color or contrast.  Would you consider having all of the groomsmen in black, all of the bridesmaids' in gray, and having yellow represented strongly in your bridesmaids' bouquets and the men's boutineers?

     
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    taylor.ashleys    August 6, 2011   Alabama

    @BerryBerry:  They DO have a purple undertone which I almost panicked about when they came in, but ended up matching the gray ties perfectly!

     
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    garden_bride    August 2012  

    Yea thats the thing, I REALLY love grey, the grey dress and my BM love the grey dress as well. But with grey groomsmen suit that I don’t want to change, it might seem very monotoned. 

    @taylor.ashleys: thanks so mich for the picture, it really did put things in a perspective. Thankfully all my girls are tanned so the yellow won’t wash them out too much.

     

     
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    GreenEyedMoon    January 14, 2012   Dallas

    Yellow is such a hard color for lots of people to wear.  Even if they are tan, yellow clashes with a lot of hair colors, especially blonde.  I would absolutely hate to have to wear yellow in a wedding.  I would definitely put your girls in gray.  With bright shoes, bright jewelry, and yellow bouquets, they should look plenty bright for summer.

     
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    Mrslongdistance    December 29, 2012   Los Angeles, CA

    I think grey would be nicer for your bridesmaids because it makes the dress more rewearable. However I think the light gray may not contrast enough with your dress. 

     
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    Kenic315    April 21, 2012   Charlotte, North Carolina

    I LOVE yellow dresses, but yellow is often hard for people to pull off, depending on their skin tone.  If you want to do yellow and you are getting some complaints from people, maybe offer to do a "spa" day where you all go and get spray tans.  They have them on Groupon a lot.

     
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    garden_bride    August 2012  

    Okay so added info: the Chiavari chairs we are having are gold! Not sure if it will clash with the grey dresses ( I dont think so?)
    We are muslim, so we will all be wearing hijab: hair colour is not an issue...only for two BMS and both are brunettes.  

    I loved the idea of buying my BMs dresses they can reuse. (The dresses will be our gift)

     

     
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    MrsMeNow    September 18, 2010   Wisconsin

    I would go with grey. As PP have said finding a shade of yellow that looks good on multiple people is really hard.

     
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    Kenic315    April 21, 2012   Charlotte, North Carolina

    @garden_bride:  Then I definitely vote for yellow!  They will be gorgeous!

     
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    rebwana    July 13, 2012   Baltimore, MD

    We picked grey dresses- the other colors are green and orange, which we'll use as strong accents (orange shoes!) Yellow can be a tricky color for women to wear, and grey has a better chance of being worn again, depending on the style.

     
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    sailor    May 2010  

    Gray - it's much more flattering color for most people.  And it will look great with bright yellow flowers.

     
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    eagle    August 2012   Calgary, AB, Canada

    I love the grey dress. 

     
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    MissBoPeep       New England

    I look ridiculous in yellow (it's not my hair, it's my skin) and I would never wear a yellow dress again.  I prefer the grey!

     
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    Anise      

    I'm sort of traditional; grey is too close to black for me.  So I would vote yellow; maybe you could do mismatched yellow gowns so each bridesmaid could find the right shade of yellow for her?

    Keep in mind it can also be difficult finding a grey that would be equally flattering on a variety of skintones also.

     
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    garden_bride    August 2012  

    Yellow or Grey BM dresses... :  wedding 0001 M

     

    Look what I found...the EXACT same yellow dress in a pretty shade....sign from God?

     
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    Jenlon    September 3, 2011   Warsaw, NY

    I agree with pp... Maybe you can use both colors, maybe MOH in one and BMs in another... Or maybe all in yellow with grey sashes or something?

     
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    garden_bride    August 2012  

    thank you ladies...I seem to be more confused now. =( Maybe I should look into diff ideas for the groomsmen...or use both colours

     
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    Dancequeen    July 7, 2012  

    I actually like them both together! Yellow is my fav color thou!

     
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    garden_bride    August 2012  

    @Dancequeen:  thanks! I am playing with around with this idea

     
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    sweetbrandy    June 23, 2012   Reno, NV

     

    Yellow or Grey BM dresses... :  wedding Imagejpeg 

    So I am biased as I am doing a light yellow satin dress (the one above on the left) because ever since I saw Kate Hudson in that yellow dress in how to lose a guy in 10 days I fell in love with the idea. We are doing black tuxes with grey vests and my groom with a white tie and the groomsmen with either yellow or grey ties and a yellow pocket fold for all. The flowers also have peach and blush with pale yellow. Just figured I'd throw those ideas out there for you, I understand there is concern with the color working with different people but I'm crossing my fingers lol. Oh and my mom is wearing a medium grey dress (she is walking me down the aisle). Good luck!

     
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    garden_bride    August 2012  

    @sweetbrandy:  I can't see your picture! =( I know the dress you are talking about exactly! I love it so much too . I do really like your groomsmen ideas! Thanks so much

     
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    QBbride    September 2, 2012   North Vancouver, BC

    I think grey is much more flattering on a lot of people.

     
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    sweetbrandy    June 23, 2012   Reno, NV

    Hmm my iPad isn't cooperating with me on uploading pics - sorry, it's impression bridal 1713 

    http://www.bestbridalprices.com/impression-bridesmaid-dresses-style-1713-p-46549.html?cPath=3_20

    The link will take you to a pic- now if you go to the imoression website it is really not accurate with the color chart, the real yellow is like the light yellow in the pic you recently showed or jasmines butter. Sorry couldn't get the pic to upload here.

     
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    garden_bride    August 2012  

    I have decided to look in stores and give online dress shopping a rest - wish me luck! Hoepfully that will make the colour decision easier when you see it in person

     
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    radishtime    June 15, 2013  

    can you do half and half?

    Otherwise I think gray dresses, yellow shoes/flowers/accesories. That way you can incorporate both but you couldnt really do it the other way around (I've never seen gray flowers lol)

     

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