Post # 1
I have been nagging my FI to asked his BFF and nephew to be his groommen for almost 4 months… drive me nut when I bought the dresses for my bridemaid and he still won’t ask them..
Then yesterday, he randomly start calling them and asked them to be his groommen + best man. And told me go ahead and order invitation cards, just like that when I am least expected…
The whole time after engagement, his laid back attitude make me feel so unreal about the whole wedding thing.. Now, I finally feel that it’s a real deal!!!
Post # 3
I know EXACTLY how you feel! I asked all my girls in June of last year. FI waited until 2 weeks ago to ask his groomsmen! I had nagged and nagged all those months and one day, he finally just did it! Such a relief!
Post # 4
Haha sounds very familiar! I wanted him to ask them before I sent out my bridesmaid asks. So I just sent them and told him he had until they were delivered to make the calls and he finally did it yesterday!
Post # 5
It’s took FI about 4 months to call his guys too. A few weeks ago I was like “hello! We are 3 months out! If you don’t call them I will”
the next day all were confirmed
Post # 6
*high five* ladies!!! doesn’t men drive us nut sometimes?? They just dun understand how important to ask!! at one point, I was so close to grab his phone and text msg the groommen to ask them hahaha
I was so fed up last week and told him if I miss the tux rental deal, I’m so going to kill him for delaying the process… the best time to negotiate for deal is before summer…
I’m so happy that I can finally start looking at tux rental 🙂
Side topic, have you girls decided on the color for groom + groom men yet?
Post # 7
Groom and groomsmen will be in charcoal gray tuxes with ivory shirts minus the jackets. It’s an outside wedding in June in Oklahoma so it will be hot! I wanted my FI to match me by doing an ivory vest, but his bout will set him apart from the groomsmen!
Post # 8
We asked together, so that was not an issue, but HOW I LONG FOR THE MOMENT he will call them to figure out what they’ll wear. u___u