- 3 years ago
Finally, the BF and I made my move in official when we moved into his house on July 17th. There wasn’t much to it – all my stuff had been packed with his since it was all at his apartment. He was finally comfortable with the fact that I DO have places to go, worst case scenario, and that my apartment was kinda’ sucking $$$ out of me that I couldn’t afford anymore. Now, I’m able to contribute that rent money to my savings (since he’s paying for the mortgage and all – don’t know how I managed to luck out with such a successful man) and living with my BF. Life is great.
Things have been a little rough because I’ve been switching up some psychotropic drugs (for treatment of some or all of my ADD/depression/anxiety/BPD), but he’s been freaking fantastic and patient with me. I’m happy to say I’m off my antidepressants and have been for about two months, successfully. I’m losing weight the “healthy way”, for the first time, and it’s working – 5 pounds down in about 2.5 weeks! Slow and steady. Wednesday I get the moulds made for my Invisalign treatment, which should be all done by the time we plan to get married (Spring/early summer of ’16?). Then, in December, I graduate from nursing school and will hopefully start working as an RN at the hospital that I’m an aide at by late December/January (or at least orietating until I pass my boards 😉 ).
Time is going by crazy fast and my engagement will be here before we know it – he plans to propose around next November. Every time we go by a Tiffany’s, I make sure I try on the Soleste and Legacy to see how I feel about them as the months go by. We talk about our future marriage, children, and all that, lovingly, every day. But, we aren’t in a rush; I need to get my career settled down and further education started/done. I really do love taking everything day by day, espeically with T by my side.