YIKES! Please commiserate with me re: cheating dreams!!

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

@howsweetitis:  arrghh those are the worst. A couple days ago I dreamt I had cheated on my FH with an ex!!! WTF ugh!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@howsweetitis:  I have these dreams every once in a while. I always wake up and for a split second I think “OMG what have I done? I’ve ruined everything!” before realizing it was just a dream.

I also have dreams every once in a while about leaving my FI at the alter (not necessarily for another man, just in general). One in particular I remember right before walking down the aisle I was crying to my mom about how I wasn’t sure I wanted to get married o_O

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

hahahahaha!!!! Sorry. The brother bit got me. I’ve definitely had dreams about having sex with other men. Not any of his brother yet – I’ll keep my fingers crossed that I can avoid that one! Really, I think it’s normal and just a matter of random things that you think about getting smashed together and put on acid. Sometimes I wake up and just think WTF mate?!? Brains are weird things…

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Most of my dreams about the subject happen after the fact, where I can “remember” what I’ve just done, but I fell into the dream after it happened. I always panic and think, “Oh no, what have I done? How could I do that?? I’ve ruined everything!”

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@howsweetitis:  Yep, mine tend to center around a specific ex that I would never in a million years get back together with.  No clue why these happen, but I always feel SO guilty when I wake up!

Post # 8
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

@howsweetitis:  *raises hand* It’s an awkward moment when you wake up and realize that the person you were dreaming about isn’t your FI, but instead, is a coworker who sits 6 desks down, 1 row over, and have only spoken about 4 words to EVER. And yes, I just counted because this has been bugging me since I had that dream last week!

Post # 9
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

@howsweetitis:  have totally had these dreams, usually when I’ve been deep in a good book or a movie and I kind of become the character from the book/movie and people in my life the other characters.  always so weird!!

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

@howsweetitis:  SUUUUPER awkward, I’ve had dreams about my boss (recurring lol), about strangers, and ABOUT A WOMAN!! 

I’m not remotely gay but I’m sort of in love with this musician, Brandi Carlile.  Her music is amazing and she seems like a really awesome person.  Well I read an article about her marrying her partner in this AWESOME barn/carnival type theme and thought how much I’d love to do something like that.  The pics were awesome!  Anyway that night, I had a dream of this sexual encounter with her and in the dream, I didn’t hate it!  I woke up like, “did that just happen??” but I wasn’t bothered by it.  First and only time I’ve thought of a woman like that!   

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Yep, definitely had those dreams, sometimes it will be some man that I have no clue who it is… But the good thing is, I forget about my dreams almost immediately after I wake up, I can only remember it vividly for a few seconds or so, but will know what it’s about lol

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

 I’ve had them on occasion, but the funniest one I’ve heard was my fiance’s dream – he dreamed that he was having a threesome, NOT with me involved, and then he remembered he was with me and ran home, and I smacked him in the face.  He actually woke me up out of a sound sleep to tell me about it, and to tell me that it wasn’t his fault!

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

@howsweetitis:  But seriously, I think I just came out of the closet.  HAHAHAH!!!! 

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

@howsweetitis:  But seriously, I think I just came out of the closet.  HAHAHAH!!!! 

Post # 16
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Busy bee

@howsweetitis: I have dreamed that my partner cheated on me but never that I cheated on him. I wake up mad at him! I hate when bad dreams stick with you and feel so real. 

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