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    MissPurple    Nov 17, 2008   Vancouver, Canada

    I absolutely adore the new local boards here on the Bee and think they're... well, the bee's knees (har har).

    But although I live in Vancouver, Canada, I'm getting married in Punta Cana, Dominican Republic!

    That's why 'd LOVE to connect with other brides who are planning a destination wedding -  to exchange thoughts, ideas and yes, maybe a few rants. :-)

    If you're also a DW bride, give a shout! 

     
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    nejireta    March 05, 2009   Reside in Hershey, PA. Wedding in Hawaii

    Desination Bride here!! I live in Hershey, PA and I'm getting married in Oahu, Hawaii. I have a few friends who live in Hawaii (I lived there as a lil' girl) but most of our family (from the groom and bride's side) are from the East Coast.

     
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    lovebird    July 2008   New York and Cancun

    woo hoo! go DW brides! Live in NYC and getting married next month in Cancun, Mexico! So much to do, so little time...

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    Jen4637    3.27.2009   Seattle

    Yay for DW brides!  I live in Seattle, WA and am wedding in Mexico in March 2009!  I'm excited to meet everyone who's also planning a DW wedding =)

     
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    nikkolec    September 10, 2011   Los Angeles, CA

    Live in southern California, getting married in Sydney in November :)

     
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    ihcoop13    9/13/08  

    YEY! I am from Jacksonville Florida, we are getting married in Belize in September!! So excitedYoo hoo! Calling all desination wedding brides :  wedding destination dominican dw caribbean beach Icon Razz

     
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    lulubelle      

    I am in Atlanta, and I'm planning a DW in Islamorada, FL! (We are thisclose to signing a contract with our venue of choice...fingers crossed!)

     
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    nikkolec    September 10, 2011   Los Angeles, CA

    Are you guys using a planner?

    Planning online?

    Visiting your site beforehand?

    How have your experiences been during the planning process?

    How many guests will be invited/attending?

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    lovebird    July 2008   New York and Cancun

    My venue comes with a wedding coordinator.

    Planning everything by email. I have no idea what my vendors sounds like...from my wedding coordinator, dj, travel agent...

    Booked site unseen but a site visit is always helpful.

    It can be a little nerve wrecking when you don't hear back from them for a couple of days. But I guess that's partly my fault cuz I choose to do everything by email to save long distance fees~ which I'm sure would add up. But I like to have things in writing so I can refer back to it.

    I have 90+ people coming at the moment. I invited about 180? 

    Good luck! 

     

     
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    inkush    undecided   orlando,fl

    Hey girl,

     

    I'm from Orlando, FL and I'm considering a destination wedding. Can anybody advise on an exotic and beatiful location with onsite coordinators?

     

    Thanks.. 

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    nejireta    March 05, 2009   Reside in Hershey, PA. Wedding in Hawaii

    I'm still in the early stages of planning, but so far my experiences have been alright. I booked venue via phone, have been to site before, but not for wedding planning so I'm planning the venue by memory. I won't be able to afford a visit beforehand.

    No planner. It's not in the budget, but I'm looking into getting a DOC just to ease my mind the day off. Most of my vendors were recommended by the lovely knotties. 

    We plan on sending out about 60 invites (give or take); that's about 120 peeps invited. We expect 15-20. Hopefully less rather than more. :o)  

     
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    davndee09    june 2009   san francisco

    i'm a bay area native, planning to have a DW in oahu, june 2009.  we are in the beginning planning stages, still trying to figure out if we're comfortable with our guests paying $700+ for an airplane ticket to hawaii...

     
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    Jen4637    3.27.2009   Seattle

    We are using the hotel's coordinator and have been corresponding via email and I've spoken to her on the phone a couple times.  Our budget won't allow us for a site visit, but I've gotten recommendations from previous brides there and have lots of pictures of wedding set-ups.  We're planning on inviting about 60 people, and we know our immediate family are 100% coming, and alot of close friends have confirmed they are as well but that can always fall through.  We are planning on having an At Home Reception the summer following our March wedding. 

    So far the planning has been going well.  I think the hardest thing for me was realizing that emails aren't responded to right away due to the "island time" mindset there.  I've gotten assurance from a previous bride who warned me of this but says the coordinator knows her stuff, so I'm not too worried since the coordinator's emails and phone conversations have been helpful so far.

    davndee09: Airfare tickets have been a concern of mine as of late seeing how fuel costs are so high right now, but there are just some things that are out of our control.  Our deciding factor whether or not to have a DW was whether our immediate family would be able to attend or not, so since they are on board then we will continue with our plans.  It's hard to imagine that some people won't be able to make it for whatever reason, but that's what comes with DW already, and in the end I just keep telling myself that the one person who needs to be there is - my fiance.  So everyone else coming is just icing on the cake =) 

     
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    MissPurple    Nov 17, 2008   Vancouver, Canada

    I was in touch with my resort's wedding coordinator (in Punta Cana, Dominican Repub.) when booking the ceremony time but other than that, nope. I'll meet with him when I get there to pick flowers and cake flavors but other than that, I'm thinking it will be pretty relaxed. After all, that's a large part of the reason why we're going away to get married. :-)

    So far we hav 61 people confirmed, but there are 5 months to go so we'll see.

    It's tough to plan when you've never been there but I've found that the Facebook group for my resort, plus TripAdvisor and Debbie's Caribbean, have been FANTASIC resources! Check 'em out. 

    @Jen4637... you are totally right! As long as your fiance is there, the rest is icing! Nicely put. 

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    davndee09    june 2009   san francisco

    Jen4637 - my fiance actually said the SAME EXACT THING when convincing me to have a DW.  i have to keep reminding myself to look at the big picture, and that everyone that's really important to me will go for sure.

     
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    ju1244    11/1/08   New York City

    Just back from my best friend's rather lavish Maui wedding.  Her wedding coordinator needed to be killed!  She was the worst and didnt even stay for the entire ceremony.  She came highly reccomended by 3 hotels, I really dont think destination brides complain much or maybe the hotels have another agenda?  All I can say is try to ask an outside source to confirm your choice...like a photographer or florist...anyone who is NOT connected with the person who reccommended the coordinator.  Good Luck!

     
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    MissPurple    Nov 17, 2008   Vancouver, Canada

    @ju1244 - sorry to hear it! I hope that the wedding was still beautiful despite it? You're right, it's a good idea to get a second opinion. I think the best is if you can find someone who actually got married at the same place! And when it come to that, what in the world did brides do before the Internet??  :-)

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    mrsbancroft2b    Feb. 21, 2008  

    My fiance and I have decided on a destination wedding to Cancun in Feb.  Does anyone have any suggestions on a possible wedding site?  I am a little worried about not seeing the site before the wedding date but I guess people do it all the time.  I think we will have around 100 people show up for the event! 

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    ActivistBride    May 16, 2009   Costa Rica

    Hi Destination Wedding Brides!

    I'm so excited that there is a DW Board on Wedding Bee.  I just registered on the site so that I could fully participate. :)

    Congratulations to everyone. 

    We live in NYC (although he's currently working in Chicago) and we're getting married in Costa Rica, God willing. My family lives there so it'll be a great way for my H2B/his family/our friends to meet them and for my family to  actually SEE me get married!

    • We're mostly planning online - via emails with the coordinators we'll be working with down there (who I think are a tad pricey but whatever. I just want to enjoy the day and not have to WORK like I did at our engagement party).
    • We won't be visiting our site beforehand. But the pictures the coordinators sent us are beeeautiful.
    • I'm cool with the planning process.  The coordinators also provide a telephone #, in case I want/need to talk to them.  One of my aunts who lives in Costa Rica said she'd coordinate our wedding and save me the money but I'd rather NOT have her do so.  I'm pretty picky and I'd rather pay for peace of mind than stress the day of if anything goes wrong - especially since she's not on email much and I'd need to be in frequent communication w/her about images/vendors, etc.  So, she and the rest of my family can just chill out and relax that day.  Other than that, I'm just a bit nervous about the photographer and videographer not producing the goods within a reasonable amount of time once we pay them and return to The States! :( Also worried about not tasting the cake or food beforehand. :( But I'm not going to stress. The coordinators seem to be fabulous and I'm going to trust them.  The last thing I'm worried about it my hair!  I don't feel that $400 for hair services (what the coordinators told me that it would cost for someone to do my type of hair) is logical. Yet I don't want to fly someone down to do my hair (maybe if I were wealthy, I'd consider either/both). So, I don't know if I want to do the wedding first and then the group activity the day after... Decisions, decisions...
    • I think we're inviting about 150 guests, but we're still in discussions about whether to invite everyone we want to be at the wedding (even if we know they won't be able to make it) or just invite the folks we know can make it (who we want to be there) and then invite the rest of the folks to our post-honeymon party back in NYC. I think 50-ish guests will attend...
    nikkolec: Sydney is AWESOME. That's one of my favorite cities in the world.

    ihcoop13: Ahhhh...Belize! How lovely. I would LOVE to go there. My friends honeymooned there and their pictures were soooo beautiful.

     
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    josefa299       new york

    I'm from NYC and will be doing a DW as well.. leaning towards riviera maya in mexico but am still doing research for other spots like los cabos or in the carribbean like Turks and caicos.  any suggestions?  any other NYC based brides out there?

     
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    DreamComeTrue    06-25-2011   Silver Spring MD

    Destination Bride here! I live in the US FI in the UK and we are getting married at The MAjestic Punta Cana!!!!

     

    @Ms. Purple where in DR are you getting married?@

     
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    beach    July 27, 2010   Newport, RI

    We're getting married in St. John USVI in July. We traveled to the island 2 years ago and the wedding is pretty much planned. If anyone needs info, let me know! Be happy to help!!

     
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    Gingers    April 2015  

    hello, hey Im from Edmonton AB, and yea we are having DW in Barbados next year very private and intimate..only us and parents...but planing a little reception after we get back.

     

     
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    seabreeze      

    DreamComeTrue: MissPurple was my old handle before I became Sea Breeze. :) I got married at the Majestic Colonial in Punta Cana. Are you doing the Majestic Colonial or Majestic Elegance? Both are so beautiful - you will love it!

     
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    WDWBride    March 3, 2010   Walt Disney World

    I'm a DW!! We are in Upstate NY and gettin gmarried in Orlando, FL (Walt Disney World).  We have a Disney Wedding Planner and she basically takes care of everything. The only thing we didn't book with Disney is our photographer (they have lots of restrictions!!). YAY for DW's!!

     
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    egb    January 2010  

    I am going to the Melia in Punta Cana!

    We are planning via email with our wedding coordinator, simple, intimate and elegant ceremony and restaurant reception with 14 guests!

     

     
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    egb    January 2010  

    For those considering Mexico:

    I considered it before choosing the Dominican Republic, but we changed our minds when we learned the requirements to get married. It is mandatory to have blood tests done IN Mexico - you can't have them done at home and bring your results only... Just a heads up!

     
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    acyclec    January 2011  

    I am getting married in January 2010 from Tacoma, WA, getting married on the ski slopes at Alpental Cascade Mountains. 

     
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    whfields    June 3, 2010   wedding in Florida

    WOOHOO! Destination bride here! We live in Virginia and are traveling to Orlando, FL for an intimate 20 guest Disney wedding.  We had it down between a DW in the US Virgin Islands or WDW and Disney won because we had taken a trip to Hawaii together a couple years earlier :). Yay for DWs!

     
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    h4baine    May 8, 2011   UK

    I live in the UK and we're going to Mallorca!

     

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