You’re Getting Divorced; He’s Not “Cheating”

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Disney

🙁 So sorry you are dealing with this.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee

@badabing88:  Ugh, I’m dealing with some family/divorce drama on my SO’s side. It’s incredible how pathetic grown adults can get! Sometimes I wouldn’t even expect this level of immaturity from 5 year olds.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Disney

@badabing88:  No offense she sounds like an attention whore :/ I would not want to deal with this behavoir either. She made her bed now she needs to lay in it. After 5 failed marriages the only common factor is herself and she’s not willing to admit that because she wants the attention of being a victim.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2024

@badabing88: Ugh sorry you have to deal with the crazy. I mean does she really think it’s cheating??

 

I moved out and filed for divorce from my ex-H…was I supposed to wait until the divorce was final to date? Hell no, if I had I wouldn’t have met my wonderful SO and my ex-H wouldn’t have met his. We were not together, and neither of us was going to wait over a year for the paperwork to be final, that just would have been stupid.

 

You mom needs help…like a psychologist…not your help and needs to not put this bullshit on you, especially on a freaking Monday morning…damn lady!

ETA: Next time she texts just say “Looks like somebody has a case of the Mondays” LMAO

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@badabing88:  She sounds just like my mom’s mom :/

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

I’m so sorry you have to deal with this 🙁 I wish I had some advice, but I just wanted you to know that I feel for you!

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

@Bazinga:  I also started dating before my divorce was final… that marriage was long over in my head before I actually left, the papers were signed, I moved out, everything was divided, etc. My ex-IL’s still considered it cheating though. People are weird.

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Ha. I did NOT follow your instructions on reading your previous posts on the topic before reading and from the short background you gave in this post, still don’t think your frustration is unjustified. What a kook. 

I’m really sorry that it sounds like you’re the one who has to deal with these issues, and that she sees fit to turn to you for sympathy? commiseration? 

What does she do/would she do if you were ever honest with her? My guess is that  you wouldn’t get a great reaction. 

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@badabing88:  She sounds JUST wonderful. No advice but wanted to say sucky way to start the work week.

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Lord in Heaven. I hope she gets her head out of her ass, no offense. Sorry you have to deal with this mess. 🙁

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