(Closed) You had a bad day, you had a bad day…(NWR)

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’m sorry that you are going through this..but I think you should still try to be positive.  Maybe this woman will not end up taking the job! I’m sure it is a lot of responsibility and she may not even be cut out to do it…or…Maybe this will be a chance for her to get to know you better and things can work out between the two of you. 

I know its tough, and I’ve also had to go through similiar changes at work (a few times to!) and it’s never fun to have to deal with change, especially when you are comfortable working with the people you do.  But, in the end things could still work out.  Do you like the department you are in and your actual job? Is it not enough for you to stick it out and see if this woman isn’t as bad as she sounds?  If working in that department doesn’t really mean much to you, then transfer as soon as you can.  Switching deparments/jobs has it’s pros and cons..like every decision we make, so if I were you just try to wait it out and see what happens.

Post # 4
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3788 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

(((hugs)))

That is so frustrating. Your plan was so well thought out and could have been great! If it is going to take that long for you to be eligible for a transfer, would it be worth just waiting it out since your other manager is out for 3-6 months and this might take 3 months anyway? I hope that you can find a way to co-exist and make it through till your situation changes. Also, I hope you are feeling better soon and that you can return to eating, drinking, sleeping and having sex!

Post # 5
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685 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@meliss: <Hug> I’m sorry you had a bad day. In a way I know how you feel.

In my previous job, during the 3 years I was working there, I had about 5-7 managers ( I forgot the exact number). Although I was doing well, yet with every new manager I had to prove myself; it got tiring after a while. The last manager I had was one of my peer that got promoted to be a manager. No one on my team like her and gave her a 0 on her review grading from 0 – 5. Although I treated her professionally, I didn’t agree with her management style (when I come to her for questions, she always have to go check with her manager and can’t make a decision herself) and didn’t see my self working for her for a long time. Eventually I quit my job (without having another job line up). I found another job shortly after that.

Luckly my currently manager and I got along well but our company is going through a lot of changes as well. I know it would suck if I end up working with another manager that I don’t get along with.

Meanwhile is there anything that would cheer you up? Reading a book? Going to movie? Buy a new pairs of Jeans ( I remember you mentioned in one of your posts).  Have your husband to spoiled you extra?

Post # 6
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1986 posts
Buzzing bee

Awww man!

Can you put yourself up there to take the position?

Post # 7
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7771 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Yeah, any chance you could take the position?

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